really confused is this normal

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Younghornyguy86, Jan 3, 2007.

  1. Younghornyguy86

    Younghornyguy86 New Member

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    hey guys welcome to one of my first if not first posts, well to update u all im 20 years old and ive just been dumped by my gf (my first love) of 3 and half years, ive been keeping positive realizing its gonna hurt alot before it gets bette, to cut to the chase of it tho ive been apart from her for about 2 months now and ive met another girl whos very nice...we had sex the other nigth and it was fine however tonith we went to have sex and imediately after we started i couldnt keep it up, ive never had this problem EVER and shes is definately hot girl who turns me on alot is it most likely that im just still in love with my ex im pretty confused can anyone else shed some light or advice
     
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    Could be performance anxiety, stress or a combination of things. Might be just a one time thing. Try again in a few days and see what happens, things should be ok. And don't think about your EX!
     
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    Forget the ex... someone else is already kicking around in that stall. Enjoy the young woman who you have found. Its probably nerves and stress from the recent breakup. Get her to give you a good massage and then go for it. If you are here as a person above average size, consider what condom size you use. I can't use anything smaller than a magnum, because I go limp from the pressure and pain of putting one on. Magnum XLs are still tight especially at the band, but a decent overall fit.
     
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    I think it's a head thing. Hopefully, by now, you've been able to lay the pipe and show the new girl a good time!

    If the problem continues (and it probably will/has not), you could always get Cialis from the doctor and use it for a few weeks.

    Keep up posted!
     
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