Here's a question to the guys out there about male friendships. How many of you have really great friendships with other guys to the extent that you'd say you also cared for that person and could talk about anything? (And I don't mean this in a sexual/gay context, where you happen to be involved with another guy.)
I am married, but I occasionally wish I also had some meaningful friendships with other males, something I never seem to have had. My younger brother is much younger and lives in a separate country, dad is too remote, and I just never had guy-friends with who I could also talk about just anything.
My wife seems have to girlfriends with who she can talk about anything, also intimate stuff? And that leaves me intrigued as to how come I never talk to other guys about personal stuff? Sometimes I feel unsure whether I even want to discuss some stuff with other guys - at other times, I feel if my wife can speak about these things, then why doI not have the same with other male friends?
Do you have really good male friends like that or am I just a sad loner?!
Looking forward to your experiences...
I am married, but I occasionally wish I also had some meaningful friendships with other males, something I never seem to have had. My younger brother is much younger and lives in a separate country, dad is too remote, and I just never had guy-friends with who I could also talk about just anything.
My wife seems have to girlfriends with who she can talk about anything, also intimate stuff? And that leaves me intrigued as to how come I never talk to other guys about personal stuff? Sometimes I feel unsure whether I even want to discuss some stuff with other guys - at other times, I feel if my wife can speak about these things, then why doI not have the same with other male friends?
Do you have really good male friends like that or am I just a sad loner?!
Looking forward to your experiences...