Hey, I've been having a lot of trouble with my self image and going to the gym, and it's making it really mentally taxing sometimes. I've tried limiting social media usage, meeting people to get my mind of things, focusing on things I like doing and my work, seeing other people as motivation, and even going to therapy and taking meds, but none of it has helped. I always just feel inadequate compared to other guys since I'm not as fit/muscular as them. I'm trying to still go to the gym anyway and even pick up jiu jitsu, but that also hasn't really helped. I'm really worried that I won't be good enough for several years, if ever because of my genetics / gynecomastia and honestly, dick size too. And I always feel so bad about myself compared to other people my age and older that have already found success with fitness and have actually built up confidence and improved their mental health from it, when only the opposite has been happening for me thus far

Does anyone have any advice?
Hey again… yeah, It's super tough when you put in the effort and don't see the results you want, especially when you're looking at other dudes who seem like they've got it all figured out. First off, kudos for not just throwing in the towel. Going to the gym and even considering jiu jitsu? That's some proactive stuff right there.
Look, everyone's got their own pace and hurdles, both physical and mental. Genetics can be a pain, but they aren't your destiny. You mentioned gynecomastia and feeling worried about your dick size. okay….
1) YOUR DICK IS WAY ABOVE AVERAGE AND PERFECT!
2) About the gyno…Have you thought about consulting a healthcare professional about this? Sometimes, there might be medical solutions or advice that could be more effective than a general gym routine. If things are really that bad, the adipose tissue can be removed via liposuction. Find a plastic surgeon, express your complaint, and ask if there is something he/she can do. Choices: Surgery or loving yourself the way you are. Personally, I’d choose happiness and acceptance. But that is easy for me to say Since I am not in your head.
4) Your fitness sounds awesome. Jiu jitsu, by the way, is awesome not just for fitness but also for mental discipline. It might just give you a different angle on what "being fit" really means. It's not always about bulging muscles and Instagram-ready abs. Sometimes it's about agility, technique, and mental grit. And who knows? You might find that the practice builds your confidence in a way that the traditional gym scene hasn't.
Feeling behind compared to others is a common sentiment, especially when you're young. But everyone's got a different journey, man.
The key is not to let other people's "success" stories dictate how you feel about your own progress. Just because fitness has been a mental boost for them doesn't mean it's the only way to gain self-confidence. Maybe your path is different, and that's totally okay.
Keep pushing forward, but also remember that you're more than just your physical attributes. If the gym's making you feel worse, not better, maybe it's time to shake things up and try a different approach to wellness, be it mental or physical.
kisses on your pink parts and that huge fucking cock
‘JEFF