I don't really have a unique question, or anything pertaining to a big dick issue for that matter, but just a general relationship question. I met this girl two weeks ago at a bar and we really hit it off. Usually I don't look past anything other than a one night stand, but this girl seemed like girlfriend material. We texted for about two weeks but I was usually the one starting the conversations. It took two weeks for us to finally get to hang out (our work schedules are polar opposites). The first night we hung out, she just came over and watched a movie. We snuggled (for lack of a better word) for most of it and just sat around and talked. We didn't even make out. She came over the next night and our talks got a little more serious. We asked why we were into each other and all that good stuff. I really let my guard down and made myself seem "soft." I probably over-complimented her, said I couldn't believe she was into me, told her I never really hang out with girls because my standards are too high, on and on. We actually made out for a good 15-20 minutes after that talk but it just didn't feel right. It's been a week since then. I asked her to come over last Sunday, she didn't; then tonight and she didn't either. I really like this girl, so I'd like for some advice to steer me in the right direction. Where do I go from here? How should I approach asking her on a real date (other than hanging out at my house)? How do I get a confident image back? Sorry if this didn't belong a forum like this but I can't fall asleep just thinking and over-complicating things. Any advice is appreciated.