Really want to bond with my friend

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  1. jayxb34

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    So I have this friend and were like brothers, I went to go see him at his job the other day cuz I haven't seen him since the summer. I'm in school and I'm like when are you coming to visit so we can hang out? Hes like "when we jack off together" I was not expecting that lol I mean we play around sexually say jokes and stuff, you know how men do but that wasnt what I expected him to say lol so I shakes his hand and I was like "I'm down" and we laughed and then he said what If we actually did it? Lol and I said I'm down and we just laughed. So after that I'm like was he really serious? I kinda want to find out without putting my self out there. Any tips?
     
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    have a little beer or some smoke that always helps and see how things go
     
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    man !! drunk, do it
     
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    Go over to his place and hang out. Drink alittle, watch some sports or movie and just chill with him. He's your boy, right? So even if it doesn happen you got to hang out with ya buddy.

    And wear cologne and make sure you look nice and clean. IF it does happen you wanna smell good for him=)
     
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    mmmm Sounds exciting and likely to happen
    How sweet, if / when it does, let him make the moves when he visits,i reckon.keep on him re a visit also
    btw...
    dont hesitate to jokingly throw his words back at him, if it appears nothings going to happen hah
    cheers .... a feely good story hah
     
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    It doesn't sound to me as though he was joking.
     
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    He practically pulled out his dick and waved it in your face. If you DON'T go for it now, you'd be insulting him.
     
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    I'd say call his bluff, if it's a bluff, and do it if it's not. At one point, after he complained about never having gotten a great blowjob from any woman, this straight friend of mine agreed to let me suck his cock, first when I said it jokingly, then when I said it seriously. I didn't want to mess up the friendship, so I never did it. Then we both graduated, went different ways, he completely disappeared unexpectedly, and we didn't even talk with each other for 10 years. I should have blown him when I could, and it might have turned out to be a good time over and over and over again.
     
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    Sooooooo hey guys!!!

    Me and my friend are going on a week look trip to LA. We are staying in the same room. Hopefully we can jack off and bond. Any more suggestions? I'll keep you posted!
     
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    looking forward for any updates
     
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    Doesn't sound to me like there'd be anything you could say or do that would upset him so just go for it.

    He's obviously comfortable being around you so what's to lose.
     
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    If the conversation comes up again tell him (playfully) it's time to step up or shut up.
     
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    Just curious, any updates?
     
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    This might happen again, I'm at home for the holidays and I'm hanging out with my friend. Here's a text message we sent the other day. image.jpeg I'll update you guys!
     
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    Doesn't sound like either of you were joking. If he gets offended - just tell him it was his idea. LOL! Seriously though - have some fun! Life is too fucking short!
     
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    So how was the first time?!?!
     
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    Well, the first time we got tipsy and we're watching some porn and was about to jack off and his little bro kept knocking on the door because he had to take him somewhere, so pretty much it didn't happen :(
     
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    Hopefully next time you'll get to finish somewhere more private.
     
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