So I have this friend and were like brothers, I went to go see him at his job the other day cuz I haven't seen him since the summer. I'm in school and I'm like when are you coming to visit so we can hang out? Hes like "when we jack off together" I was not expecting that lol I mean we play around sexually say jokes and stuff, you know how men do but that wasnt what I expected him to say lol so I shakes his hand and I was like "I'm down" and we laughed and then he said what If we actually did it? Lol and I said I'm down and we just laughed. So after that I'm like was he really serious? I kinda want to find out without putting my self out there. Any tips?