Spaces for queer people are important, I agree. Without straight women, I wouldn’t be alive, though I could really do without the “gbf” questions. They make me feel awful. Once, a straight girl asked me to send her pictures of me & my future boyfriend (no luck on that front still ) so she could add them to her “gay folder”. Wtf?!?!?!?
However, it seems tons of gay men just assume every woman in a gay bar who isn’t butch is straight, which is sexist and erasure-y and shitty. Plenty of gay men treat queer women like garbage, and it’s awful. My best friend is a bi woman, and she still hasn’t come out publicly because the first person she told (who is queer, ironically) said she’s faking it.
Honestly, it’s only the drunk, rude & loud straight women that suck. Let me emphasize something I said earlier - without straight women, I wouldn’t be alive. There are straight people that go to gay bars that understand they’re in queer spaces and conduct themselves accordingly that I welcome with open arms.
idk what OP even means by women in gay porn - it’s gay porn, there aren’t any women in it. If he’s talking about trans men, then he’s being a transphobic dick. If he’s talking about this website, it’s not just for gay/bi/etc men lmao.