Reborn virgin or virgin?

[Axcess]

Now that I think about it , I think that my friend the one that told me that he is in a 9 year drought ( he is 30 years old now) is lying and he is really a virgin. I'm saying this because the last week he dont answer my question of at what age he lose his virginity . He say that he dont remember.

 

[No_Strings]

What if he is?

 

[Axcess]

What if he is?

Not a problem to me but he dont have to lie to me . We are very good friends.

 

[Time2Talk]

I did the same when I was in school, when I was asked I felt like I was perhaps a little behind and so I avoided the question. I was far too shy to make something up.

 

[Axcess]

I did the same when I was in school, when I was asked I felt like I was perhaps a little behind and so I avoided the question. I was far too shy to make something up.

Our friendship willnot be altered if he revealed that to me . To me the quality of the person is far more important than irrevelant details like if the person is virgin or not.

 

[rob_just_rob]

What's wrong with being a virgin?

 

[Time2Talk]

I understand. School was terrifying, but now as an adult we look at things differently so why do you think he would lie?

 

[Axcess]

I understand. School was terrifying, but now as an adult we look at things differently so why do you think he would lie?

I think that maybe he fear that ourfriendship would be affected but i'm cool either case.

 

[Axcess]

What's wrong with being a virgin?

I dont think that being a virgin is wrong but maybe he think it is .

 

[Rugbypup]

If a friend pressed me for my virginity details, i would be hurt and mortified, regardless if it mattered or not, because remaining a virgin, clearly carrie a lot of stigma and negative conatations that im sure no man past a certain age would willingly confess to.

 

[Axcess]

If a friend pressed me for my virginity details, i would be hurt and mortified, regardless if it mattered or not, because remaining a virgin, clearly carrie a lot of stigma and negative conatations that im sure no man past a certain age would willingly confess to.

I dont ask him about his virginity details . Actually the day I ask him the question of when he lose it I dont thought that he was hiding something.
After posting and reading in the other virginity thread it became clearer to me that he is very probable that he is lying.

 

[Time2Talk]

I lied until I lost my virginity at 17. Before then I lied to fit in and because there were guys who called me 'gay' so much. It was not easy just trying to fit in. I understand why he would mislead you on this. Men are so competitive.

 

[Axcess]

I lied until I lost my virginity at 17. Before then I lied to fit in and because there were guys who called me 'gay' so much. It was not easy just trying to fit in. I understand why he would mislead you on this. Men are so competitive.

Man kids exaggerates so much !!! Many think that the age of 17 is late to lose it !!!!:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:

 

[rob_just_rob]

I dont think that being a virgin is wrong but maybe he think it is .

Exactly. When I was a 20 year old virgin, I didn't advertise that fact. He's probably somewhat embarassed. I'm not sure confronting him and telling him that it's okay would be helpful, though.

 

[Axcess]

Exactly. When I was a 20 year old virgin, I didn't advertise that fact. He's probably somewhat embarassed. I'm not sure confronting him and telling him that it's okay would be helpful, though.

The truth is that I will not ask him that. I make the thread to ask what do you guys think about what I suspected.

 

[B_Italian1]

I think that maybe he fear that ourfriendship would be affected but i'm cool either case.

I dont think that being a virgin is wrong but maybe he think it is .

He may consider it something private he doesn't want to discuss with you. It's kind of like how much money people make. Some are very open about it and will tell you and others don't want you to know.

If a friend pressed me for my virginity details, i would be hurt and mortified, regardless if it mattered or not, because remaining a virgin, clearly carrie a lot of stigma and negative conatations that im sure no man past a certain age would willingly confess to.

You shouldn't feel any kind of stigma or negativity attached to being a virgin. It is nobody's business. If a person presses you about something you are not comfortable talking about, then they are not a friend.

 

[Axcess]

He may consider it something private he doesn't want to discuss with you. It's kind of like how much money people make. Some are very open about it and will tell you and others don't want you to know.



You shouldn't feel any kind of stigma or negativity attached to being a virgin. It is nobody's business. If a person presses you about something you are not comfortable talking about, then they are not a friend.

I only created this thread to hear from you guys if you guys think that what I suspect is true. I know that this is uncomfortable to him and I will not talk to him about the subject.

 

[Snakebyte]

I only created this thread to hear from you guys if you guys think that what I suspect is true. I know that this is uncomfortable to him and I will not talk to him about the subject.

No matter whatever we think, we never will know for sure. So what's it all about? :wink:

 

[Axcess]

No matter whatever we think, we never will know for sure. So what's it all about? :wink:

I'm only asking if you guys think that what I suspect is valid . That's all.

 

[viking1]

I'm only asking if you guys think that what I suspect is valid . That's all.

I'd say there's a very good possibility that he is a virgin, but doesn't want that to be known.