This is aimed at men and women who actively receive anal. More into those who receive it more than 2 to 3 times a week. What is "better" for you? A long penis deep inside you or a thick penis stretching you to your limits? I have a girl who I introduced to anal and she says she likes being stretched by my girth over the other lover she has who is longer than me, but his girth is about 1/2 (seen pictures, 10" long but honestly looks about as thick as a roll of quarters). When I have received anal, I like the full feeling over the "hit my stomach" feel of a long one, but there are times when a long once is nice.