Receiving Head From Men! Good/Bad %?

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Hey Girls,

At the end of the day most guys think they are superman when it comes to performing in the bedroom and most of this is just male bravado! This is not me bragging but I personally perform well in giving oral. I attribute this to my first girlfriend. We never had sex but just messed around giving head to each other for 2 years. Now I do understand that other factors play into hand here, for example different techniques for different girls, different pressure etc. Also if you are into it and enjoy it this also helps it.

The general consensus among guys is that "Girls suck at giving head". From my own experience with past experiences with head with girls I have had 2 or 3 that was good and enjoyed it. (Although never cum and never experienced this mythological "deepthroat")

My question to you ladies is what is the ratio for you with your past experiences of receiving head? Can you some of you agree that it is all bravado or can you disagree?
 

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Maybe it's just me, but I never heard of giving head to a woman. As for oral sex, well, I'm not as experienced as most, but I can honestly say I've never had bad oral sex. I may have given it badly, but never received it as such.
 

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Only one guy stands out as being unusually good at eating pussy. Only two stand out as being awful. One had a snaggle tooth that kept catching the hood of my clit. The other was obviously just doing it so I would be happy, and clearly took no personal pleasure from it. Everybody else was really enjoyable. I mean, it feels great. I have, as I said, almost never had cause to complain. If I hadn't run into that one guy, I wouldn't know it could get better. Most guys felt great, but the one guy felt just like a vibrator. Awesome. Women? Good lord, I could live my whole life without another woman eating me out and I'd be fine. I would have thought women would be better at it, but they just haven't been. One woman was really good, a couple were okay, and the rest were just awful. I hope I'm better at cunnilingus than that!
 

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I've had head from men and a couple of women. If it never happened again, I'd be fine. For the most part it's fine, a couple of guys have been good and a few times I could tell the guy was only doing it because he felt he had to. It was a waste of my time and his.

The guys who were good liked doing it, much like I like giving head myself. It's not about reciprocating, but about losing one's self in pleasure - the giving of it being as pleasurable as receiving. I've always been told I'm really good at giving, but I don't 'do' to 'get'. A man doesn't have to pay me back. I do it because I like the guy and I love sucking his cock.

So......bottom line. Most guys aren't all that great at it. They think they are and try a bunch of tricks with their tongues, but it's all for the wrong reasons. It's to prove how awesome they are in bed or to get head, but not to just get lost in the sheer sensation devouring a women; to get pleasure by giving it and giving into 100%. They need to like me, devour me.
 
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The guys I've been in LTRs with were all terrible. At first. I taught them how to please me. I go for the nerdy guys =) who are often inexperienced so I educate them. WIN-WIN.

I'm careful not to discourage; I redirect enthusiasm and eagerness with ego stroking and positive encouragement to teach them what I enjoy, and sometimes I will just show them what to do while I sit in front of them. Most guys enjoy watching a woman pleasure herself and it's an easy way to educate the clueless. A lot easier than "enduring" the activity and pretending to like it over and over..... idk why people do that

I could live my whole life without another woman eating me out and I'd be fine. I would have thought women would be better at it, but they just haven't been.

I can relate, same here
 
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Hey Girls,

At the end of the day most guys think they are superman when it comes to performing in the bedroom and most of this is just male bravado! This is not me bragging but I personally perform well in giving oral. I attribute this to my first girlfriend. We never had sex but just messed around giving head to each other for 2 years. Now I do understand that other factors play into hand here, for example different techniques for different girls, different pressure etc. Also if you are into it and enjoy it this also helps it.

The general consensus among guys is that "Girls suck at giving head". From my own experience with past experiences with head with girls I have had 2 or 3 that was good and enjoyed it. (Although never cum and never experienced this mythological "deepthroat")

My question to you ladies is what is the ratio for you with your past experiences of receiving head? Can you some of you agree that it is all bravado or can you disagree?

General consensus you say? Where is this ocean of research, this in-depth study that you've based this "consensus" on? Oh here it is, and I quote, "own experience with past experiences" (sic). I see, so 2 or 3 were good out of how many? 2 or 3?

Look, you're not fooling anyone here as we're all well aware how much you men value placing your penises in our mouths. Seriously, if we're so terrible why is it you guys keep coming back for more and never stop bothering us for one? I'm not saying that there aren't some women who lack the oral skills of others but consensus? Really? How the fuck could you possibly even know that?

You know what I read once in a men's magazine? The reason you have trouble coming is because you've been masturbating incessantly since you got your first pube and have become too accustom to your own hand. Try and stop playing with yourself (I know this will be near impossible for you) and allow the woman in your life to become the vehicle through which you achieve orgasm. Over time a new way, feel, for triggering an orgasm in you will take shape. This takes actual commitment and self-control. It takes someone willing to give of themselves for the sake of a more intimate relationship with their partner.

Yeah, I know, there's no fucking way you'd sacrifice a single day of jacking off to Kardashian ass. Good luck finishing yourself off with your hand.
 

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I guess answers varies depending on your opinion off oral sex. Im not a huge fan, so Ive had a few that were really great, others were good enough to be considered as a "warm up" technique.
 

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Yeah general consensus I said. I am not sure about you but reading something in a magazine doesn't give me a consensus about anything nor do I believe much of what they tell me. I base this 'general consensus' on friends and people that I have actually talked to, and I have talked to a lot of people over the years. 2 or 3 were good out of the 8 different girls I have received it from.


What is this valuing our penises in your mouths, another rant about how men are derogatory towards women I don't give oral to her to get my dick sucked. Many a time I would go down on her, she would finish and I lie down beside her, no blowjob no sex, why? Because I enjoy it and I get pleasure from her getting pleasure and don't ever expect anything back.

I have currently gone 5 days without masturbation, why? For exactly the same reason you suggested, so our sex can be more 'intimate', especially if I go through a period of not cumming I want her to feel better about the whole situation. I have before gone 3 weeks for the same exact reason, so don't talk to me about commitment and self-control.

Kim Karashian is over-rated.

General consensus you say? Where is this ocean of research, this in-depth study that you've based this "consensus" on? Oh here it is, and I quote, "own experience with past experiences" (sic). I see, so 2 or 3 were good out of how many? 2 or 3?

Look, you're not fooling anyone here as we're all well aware how much you men value placing your penises in our mouths. Seriously, if we're so terrible why is it you guys keep coming back for more and never stop bothering us for one? I'm not saying that there aren't some women who lack the oral skills of others but consensus? Really? How the fuck could you possibly even know that?

You know what I read once in a men's magazine? The reason you have trouble coming is because you've been masturbating incessantly since you got your first pube and have become too accustom to your own hand. Try and stop playing with yourself (I know this will be near impossible for you) and allow the woman in your life to become the vehicle through which you achieve orgasm. Over time a new way, feel, for triggering an orgasm in you will take shape. This takes actual commitment and self-control. It takes someone willing to give of themselves for the sake of a more intimate relationship with their partner.

Yeah, I know, there's no fucking way you'd sacrifice a single day of jacking off to Kardashian ass. Good luck finishing yourself off with your hand.
 

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I appreciate everyone's positive replies. I certainly don't think myself as extra-ordinary but I agree with LaFemme! Giving it 100% not because you feel you have to, but because you want to, to devour them, and I am all about devouring women!