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my SO was scarred by a BF years ago, who told her that giving oral to women is gross; I don’t agree AT ALL, but she continues to be haunted by this comment and worries that she smells, etc; basically, it causes her more anxiety than ecstasy!
now, i have told her that she is great “down there;” and sometimes she will receive oral for a while; but it’s clear that she wants to rush through that step, so to speak, and get on to sex; consequently, our foreplay is quick and somewhat one-sided; some guys might love that arrangement, but as time passes i’m convinced that it’s hurting our sex life.
thoughts?! by the way, we have talked about this numerous times, and she seems to think i’m making a mountain out of a molehill; it’s just not her thing, she says...
now, i have told her that she is great “down there;” and sometimes she will receive oral for a while; but it’s clear that she wants to rush through that step, so to speak, and get on to sex; consequently, our foreplay is quick and somewhat one-sided; some guys might love that arrangement, but as time passes i’m convinced that it’s hurting our sex life.
thoughts?! by the way, we have talked about this numerous times, and she seems to think i’m making a mountain out of a molehill; it’s just not her thing, she says...