Recent first-timer cannot cum during sex

[D_Dan_T_Zinferno]

I had the same issue through much of my early sexual experience. I think it's just a matter of comfort and practice. It takes awhile to figure out what works with another person period but it also matters who the person is. It will come in time. Just don't pressure yourself and try to enjoy the experience. Cumming is physically necessary for a lot of guys but it's best not to place too much importance on it. You can always j/o later.

 

[surto]

Perhaps you're just not into her as much as you initially thought

i don't think there's any point in getting the poor guy to worry about this too... In almost all certainty it's the way he jacks off and his inexperience.

 

[D_Likima_Taint]

I take forever to cum as well. Just give her lots and lots of foreplay, and go down on her after a while of pounding her.

 

[jjo12401]

Are you sure your not gay? Fuck a guy and see how how long it takes you to cum....

 

[surto]

^^^^^^^

goes without saying you shouldn't listen to the guy above. if you were gay you wouldn't be getting an erection with her. Plus an anus is very different than a vagina. lot's of straight men had difficulty coming in their first times for all the reasons you 've been listening to.

 

[D_Hank_E_Hanabata]

I sense this is likely going to be a growing problem with ours and younger generations. It's a combination of de-sensitivity on account of porn and a over-reliance on your hand to make you come. Your very own brand of motion, pressure and pace that you've honed since your teen years makes intimacy with a female less enjoyable.

Easily curable though, with a bit of will power. Lay off the porn and "fapping" for a few weeks, and in general just lower the frequency of it permanently. Some people even find they feel more confident, energetic and focused when they lay off the masturbation as well.

 

[mraverage7]

I wouldn't listen to the gay comments, nor would i pay particularly attention to any ED comments.

A few years ago I remember having the same problem you comment on, initially it was keeping hard (after foreplay), then it was ejaculating... i read loads of information on the internet and almost convinced myself i had a problem with ED ; no morning glories, losing erection easily etc etc. I almost went to see the doctor.

Basically long story short it was self induced pressure; experienced new GF, and i had convinced myself I needed to be 'the man'. Our first night together hadn't gone to plan, and so pressure mounted, anyway 3rd/4th time lucky ( a few drinks) my member stood to attention, ejaculation took a while( which i'm sure was a good thing) but eventually I came. i've had absolutely no problems since, with her or any other GF's. TBF I explained the situation to her, after all it was her fault ;-), and she was very understanding and didn't put any pressure on.....

Good luck


ps. morning wood has returned.