Recently Circumcised - I HATE it.

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Adult or baby cutting should be illegal regardless of reason and in this case I would initiate proceedings if for no other reason than to make news! Circumcision is never necessary! It should be banned! Its an archaic practice of some religions and an totally unnecessary modern American medical practice that should be stopped!
 

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Adult or baby cutting should be illegal regardless of reason and in this case I would initiate proceedings if for no other reason than to make news! Circumcision is never necessary! It should be banned! Its an archaic practice of some religions and an totally unnecessary modern American medical practice that should be stopped!


It's not a modern practice, its been around for thousands of years and not only in America and not just in Jewish religions. I agree the foreskin isnt a worthless piece of skin that should be lobbed off at birth, but to say the foreskin can not have complications that warrant some form of surgical alteration is foolish.

It's like the people who presume every woman is capable of vaginally birthing a child. Some of us c-section mothers and babies would have died in birth a 100 years ago. Realize that some things are necessary whether we like them or not.
 
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Ryan, this may sound funny, but you need to give it a bit more time. It takes a while for you to adjust your onw instincts on how to handle your new penis.

Furthermore, while your scar may be more or less healed, there are stlll nerve connections that are rebuilding and your brain still adapting to your new penis.

I'd say wait another 3 months (6 month since circ) and you should see some pretty important progress since then.
 

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Yeah when the skin toughens up it won't be as irritating, but I was cut at birth and there was always a background level of irritation. I remember how uncomfortable it was at puberty. I suppose it was growing. I was always surreptitiously rearranging my penis in my pants - trying not to be observed. The glans is supposed to be internal. Now it is surgically externalized.

The problem with asking for a partial circumcision is surgeons have not been trained to do it that way. Also, the guy who did you was probably circumcised at birth so he wanted to make you the way he is because he believes that is normal.
 

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this should ONLY be done on medical grounds, and not cos you ''feel like it''
i am not cut and have no intention of EVER having it done. for a start, if you look at most cut photos, the head is smaller then the shaft, why?.
mine is bigger then the shaft, and most uncut men are. if you want to look the part, then just keep it pulled back as i have for 20 odd years, at lest you then have a choise, best of both worlds. and yes, i still have a lot of feeling in my exposed head, keep it back, look the part.
thanks.
 

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I was recently circumcised at 25 and really like the result! There's much more sensetivity and pleasure. I had the procedure on December 21st and have healed brilliantly. Stick it out man, I think you might like it in the future. I know I did! Let me know how it goes if you would, cheers!
 
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... The big problem I've got now is that there is no sensitive skin left.

...My glans has lost feeling in it...


...I constantly get the feeling my glans needs to be covered up but I have no skin left to roll down over it. It's constantly chafing in underwear.

Ryan.

Sue that "doctor"... you have been robbed!
 

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As you can guess from my username, my name's Ryan and I'm circumcised.
I'm 24 and I was circumcised in November 2007 (3 months ago).

I suffered with a tight foreskin for several years which was causing me pain during sex. The doctor recommended i have it removed. He told me I only need the tip removing where it was tight.

On the day of my circumcision, i saw the surgeon beforehand and he told me it is usual to remove the entire foreskin not just the tip to reduce the chance of infection after the operation.Why did you not get up and walk out,this was not what you agreed too. So he removed all my foreskin.

The big problem I've got now is that there is no sensitive skin left. The skin from my shaft was pulled right down and stitched just behind the head of my dick. From reading about circumcision styles I think this is called a low and tight cut. It is tight but I don't think it's too tight as it's not painful when i get an erection.

My glans has lost feeling in it over the last few weeks. In the first couple of weeks after my circumcision it was very sensitive and I had no problems the first few times I had sex (I had to wait until it healed before having sex). It felt different than before but I enjoyed it and got off ok.
A few weeks later and the texture of my glans toughened up. It's now rough and leathery and isn't giving me pleasure during sex. It's as though it's gone almost numb and has lost its sensitivity. My doctor says it's normal for this to happen. I've tried using lube but it doesn't make any difference. I get an erection easily but it's as if I haven't got enough feeling to get off, either when i have sex or have a wank.

I constantly get the feeling my glans needs to be covered up but I have no skin left to roll down over it. It's constantly chafing in underwear. I usually wear boxers but after being circumcised I found my penis was moving around a lot and wondered if this was desensitising my glans. I've changed to wearing a jockstrap and although this stops my penis from moving, my glans constantly touching the material and it's turned a sort of greyish colour as a result. Again my doctor says this is common.

For other guys who were circumcised as adults, have you also found a similar thing and what the hell can I do to get the feeling back in the head of my dick. I know some guys try foreskin restoration but this can take months or years and to be honest I don't think I've got enough skin left to try this.
I'm perfectly happy with the way my dick looks. I've got a scar just behind the head of my dick but it is gradually fading and know it will fade more given time. I've no problem with the way my dick looks, it's the loss of feeling I cannot get used to. It's affecting me during sex in that I cannot get off. It's so frustrating. I have sex most days but i'm not getting a sexual release. I HATE being circumcised.

Has anyone else had the same problem and if so how do you cope with the loss of feeling ?
Any advice would be good to hear.
Also feel free to leave me a private message.
Cheers guys
Ryan.

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I had an infection very recently and it was very severe. i never even considered a cut.

the infection is gone and all it needed was some tablets and proper ointment and hygene.
 

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You confirm all my fears about "the Cut"
My foreskin is the most sensitive part, it should never be removed. Your doc should have suggested stretching, even with an aneasthetic, it would have been better. This should be illegal.

You're right...the poor guy didn't get all of the info from his doc's regarding the alternatives. But there's no reason to go into that now.

Unfortunately you'll just have to give it time, dude. But you've pretty much lost the sensitivity you used to have from your frenulum and the glans. The glans can come back, though, but it means stretching your foreskin over a loooong time in order to get a little bit back to cover it. And that seems kinda silly since you've already gone the hard route to remove it.

Patience will have to do you for now.
 

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Ryan,True your'e not happy, about what you did,but I think from your skin,now being in contact with the air,and clothes etc.,it is going to make it feel more leathery.Give it more time to heal.
I recommend trying some Bag Balm, on it every day.
It has worked wonders, on my scars, and with dry,chapped skin.
It's a good all around product and safe!
It comes in a green square tin,and you can find it at any drugstore.
Best wishes to you.
cigarbabe:saevil:
 

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You confirm all my fears about "the Cut"
My foreskin is the most sensitive part, it should never be removed. Your doc should have suggested stretching, even with an aneasthetic, it would have been better. This should be illegal.
I agree. Doctors are quick to butcher sex organs of men and women.
 

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OP - You fucked up, dude. Never should have been cut, you should have stretched the foreskin until the tightness was no longer a problem.

Lots of men here, including myself, would LOVE to have a full coverage foreskin. I'm working on restoring mine, but it's been close to 2 years and I'm not done yet.
 

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Does anyone notice the rash of "unhappy" circed newbies around here? Something seems suspicious. We all know that multiple accounts is grounds for banning, right?

And this op has only one post. I'm sure that this poster is as "real" as many of the "women" have been on lpsg...
 

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Does anyone notice the rash of "unhappy" circed newbies around here? Something seems suspicious. We all know that multiple accounts is grounds for banning, right?

And this op has only one post. I'm sure that this poster is as "real" as many of the "women" have been on lpsg...

The bitch is back!