Recognizing attraction vs. feeling attraction

[Daisy]

well I go to the gym regularly and I look at everybody! I can admire a beautiful body without wanting to jump in bed with that person. Some guys at the gym have fantastic bodies but aren't my type, so I'm not attracted that way.
I totally check out the women, as I think all women do (although I do like girls too) I am usually thinking "I wish I had her body" as opposed to "I want to have sex with her"

 

[Aplus]

well I go to the gym regularly and I look at everybody! I can admire a beautiful body without wanting to jump in bed with that person. Some guys at the gym have fantastic bodies but aren't my type, so I'm not attracted that way.
I totally check out the women, as I think all women do (although I do like girls too) I am usually thinking "I wish I had her body" as opposed to "I want to have sex with her"

Well it does seem to be generally easier and more excepted for women then it seems to be for men. Men i think are especially wary of being fairly or unfairly labeled since the term "gay" tends to be flown around pretty loosely (generally) among us.