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It takes me a long time to get hard again after I've ejaculated. If I'm really turned on, like if its my first night with a girl or we're watching porn, I can be ready again in an hour or so. But usually its a few hours before I can get hard enough to have sex again.

Is it possible to reduce the recovery time? Or is this ability just something you're born with? If anyone has any tips, I'd appreciate it.
 

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I think it depends on the person. I had a night where I was hard for nearly 4 hours; I came 6 times, and was hard as a rock after the first three. I've had as little as no delay, up to a hour delay.
 

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I don't know what to tell you, I recovered quickly...After your first orgasm, take a breather and don't think about sex for a few minutes...then when you come back, you should start to get horny again.
 

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For me, it usually only takes about 15-20 mins after I bust before I'm back in business. Of course, all of these times have been solo flights as I'm still a virgin. I'd bet that it might come up a lil faster with a sexy woman waiting for more.
 

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I have a long recovery time too. After I shoot my load it takes me at least 20 minutes before I'm able to get hard again, then it's another 20 before I even feel like I could shoot again. I've gotten used to it but when I was younger it would get me so frustrated when other guys could shoot load after load after load with no problem. Now I just realize that everyone's different.
 

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I have to say my recovery time is fairly quick and in the right circumstance I stay hard almost continually. I guess I am just a fast reloader:)
 

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I often stay hard even after shooting my first load. Sometimes I can cum 3-4 times and stay hard, although now that I'm older I'm usually done after cuming twice, and then it takes about 15 minutes before I'm ready to go again, and it takes longer to cum the 3rd time as well, which suits my partner just fine because I can normally stay hard for about 45 min. to an hour the 2nd and third times. If I take some Viagra or Cialis, I can go even longer, and cum 3-4 times without ever losing an erection (great stuff for us older guys when we want to fuck a woman's brains out!).
 

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with the pills to keep you hard.......this question is stupid....since if you stay hard with a pill.....you will cum again.
 

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It will take 5-15 min to get it back up... when I cum more than 3 times in a row.
 

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Usually I can Blow 3-4 times before i go soft. Then it's probably about and hour before i can/get hard again.
 

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My advice would be try not to think about it too much. If you're anxious or upset about not being able to get hard, you'll take even longer to finally get hard. Mostly the refractory period is physiological, but I think there might be a psychological aspect to it too. If you start making out with her or giving her oral for a long enough time, you'll be thinking about something other than your erection (hopefully) and that might make it easier.
 

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Thanks for the responses guys. Sounds like I'm just gonna have to get used to waiting a long time between sessions.

Drugless hints to quick recovery (things that have worked for "older guy" me, roughly in order of effectiveness):

1. a scorchingly hot partner
2. showering together, bathing each other's stuff
3. a glass of red wine
4. a 10-min snooze
 
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The main thing to do is not focus on it...after sex with the wife we shower together then make something quick to eat...then back to having sex...(just dont think about getting hard while you shower and eat)..then start your foreplay i like to lick her pussy then i'm hard again and the second one always lasts longer