Thats just it, gay people do exist, granted some are shallow as hell, but we know what we want and know what we like, and we tend to stick to it, not be all kinds of confused and wanting sexual pleasure with both sexes cause we cant get satisfaction from one sex... We have Gay Pride, all over this country and most of the world, why? Because gays are proud to like other men, and are proud to ONLY have sex with men.. You dont see a Bi pride, or a pansexual pride or a meterosexual pride do ya? Nope..
Typical.
You are no less ignorant and biased than the morons who call being gay a "choice"...
You have an assumed conclusion, based upon your own limited experience, and completely disregard the experience of others, or re-define their experience as being some variant of your own.
Sorry... the actual evidence is quite conclusive. MOST men are bisexual to some degree. And as someone who is 50 and has had these feelings for as long as I have had sexual feelings, I consider your comments about how somebody who is "bi" will become clearer as they grow older to be foolish and myopic.
My feelings are absolutely clear. I form love relationships with women, but fully appreciate the erotic appeal of both sexes. I have enjoyed, with great relish, sex with other males... ranging from the mere voyeuristic to the kinkiest... and I have enjoyed the same wide range of sexual experience with women. I have had sex with both at once... and the only notable difference between my enjoyment of either was that I was more concerned with the girls' affection, with her emotional state, and with the guy, more objectifyingly fixated on his cock.
I am not a guy who will simply fuck anything... as my experiences with men have mainly featured me as being the one getting fucked, or doing the sucking. And yet I enjoy just as heartily being the one doing the fucking when it comes to sex with women.
Really... It is not a matter of being less than completely satisfied with either, nor with both.
I have been completely sexually satisfied by both men and women.
and I am definitively more emotionally satisfied with women.
The fact that I prefer to spend my time with women, that I prefer to cuddle with and invest my life with a woman, has had no effect of diminishing, over the decades, the pleasure I get from contemplating sex with men, or from viewing gay porn ( alongside heterosexual porn)...
I no longer indulge in sex with men because I am faithful to my mate... the exact same reason I do not pursue sex with women Other than my mate.
And, if her fantasy were to have a threeway with another guy, I would be willing to try it... only to the extent that it did not impair our primary relationship.
In addition... I have found that I can just as easily be the dominator as the dominated, that I can thoroughly enjoy BDSM, watersports, and just about any other kind of kinky sexual practice... the only necessary feature being that my partner find it sexually exciting.
In short, I do not think of myself as being either heterosexual nor homosexual... but as being simply
sexual.
I have always been this way... and I will always be this way.
I am not living in denial. Not closeted, not passing, and not mistaken.
The reason there are no bisexual pride marches is the same reason there USED to be no gay pride marches...
Because of the intransigent and prejudiced idiocy of folks like you who claim that there is no such thing or deny the validity of our stated feelings.
Oh, and the LGBT movement? the B is for Bisexual.