Referring To Women You Want To Screw As....

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When I was in college, I used to be incredibly disturbed by the names straight guys called women they wanted to screw. B***h and w****e being the top names. There were also names I don’t remember that were weird also. So my question is, why are women ,some straight guys want to screw , referred to in such disparaging ways? Does it bother you when you have heard it? Do you say it? What names do you say?
 

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Sure I guess I'm guilty of using the term bitches but it's a term of endearment rather than a derogatory term, the printed word can be confusing, it's not what you say it's how you say it and in what context bruh.
 
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I always ask a woman what she likes to be called in bed. If she likes to be called sexy lady, dirty girl, slut, bitch, whore. Whatever she wants is what I call her. I love dirty talk, it’s hot. And women always enjoy sex more when the are comfortable. So I’ll call her whatever she is comfortable with.
 

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I've never gotten into that. In my experience of being around men who do refer to women they want to have sex with a bitch (or other terms) especially around their male friends, usually indicates that the guy is incredibly insecure. Often times they'll use these terms to bring women down who they feel are "out of their league" so that their friends won't give them a hard time for even trying. Sometimes, its guys who are just trying to act tough, or more macho around male friends. If a guys says that kind of thing in front of a women he's trying to sleep with, calling her a bitch to her face, not necessarily in an aggressive way, its just unfortunately successful tactic of negging.

Either way, the men who do that kind of shit get zero respect from me.

Now, if a woman likes being called a bitch in bed or if it's used in a more playful way or joking way with a woman the man knows, then that's perfectly acceptable. Context is import here. Just the other day my gf and I were playing a video game, and she beat me, and she was shit talking me pretty good about it, so I jokingly said "god, you're such a bitch." And we laughed about it.
 
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Ive never really used those terms, usually i see a "hot chic or babe" or something similar.
 

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I don't think I ever have in that construct.

If I used those words on any woman it was because a) we were having kinky sex and she wanted to hear it or b) she used something equally vulgar on me and crossed every known red line I can think of and rest assured if she did that she was not on my "too screw" list
 
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Idk anyone who uses the word whore like that...

But I am guilty of using the word bitch pretty freely tho. As in "No not that one, I'm talking about the bitch in the red shirt."
 

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I think it's a confidence thing. What better way to some people to come out on top when being insecure than to rename someone an insult. To me it's why the aca was turned into obamacare. For a lot of guys it's a way to add artificial confidence. To label someone something less than so they have what it takes to approach them.

With others i think they're just followers. If someone else does something that they hold in high esteem or see as an equal they'll say it too.

And further for others it's a sexual thing. There are women out there who respond to it. I'm guessing like a gateway drug into the sub dom lifestyle.
 

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I've only used those words with my wife while in the context of having sex and then only sparingly. I always had too much respect for women I didn't know or might have been attracted to to use disparaging terms and don't think very highly of guys who have. In fact when I see some of the members here who post albums of their wives or girlfriends and refer to them as their slut or bitch, I automatically will form a negative opinion of them just based on that.

This is one of the reasons I had to remove our pics from several other websites we used to be on as some of the comments could be very disrespectful and while these guys might have thought they were being sexual in a manly way, they were too stupid to realize they would never get to screw another man's significant other by referring to her by such pejoratives. Or as I used to respond to them by reminding them I don't consider my wife "my bitch", "my slut" or "my whore", so she sure as hell isn't yours.
 
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I have never understood why a guy would think he's going to get to have sex with a woman by calling her deragotory names. In fact if anyone calls my wife any of those names she immediately gets up and just walks off. Its only happened once. Some younger guy. He got no entertainment that night.
 
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I have never understood why a guy would think he's going to get to have sex with a woman by calling her deragotory names. In fact if anyone calls my wife any of those names she immediately gets up and just walks off. Its only happened once. Some younger guy. He got no entertainment that night.

Exactly. These guys who feel the need to make crude comments about other women either in person or online could never make it in the Lifestyle as they are not only disrespecting the woman but her husband or boyfriend as well. If they don't figuratively get in good with him, they aren't literally getting in her.
 
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