Regarding: Guys looking to chill, drink a beer, slip in some porn and "compare"

[D_Ireonsyd_Colonrinse]

I've noticed that a lot of "99% straight" guys here are into something called "comparative masterbation".

Reading a few posts, the idea seems to be the solicitor wants to "chill", "have a couple beers", and then jack off and "compare".

Is it me or is there something unspoken lurking around in these personal ads?


A typical post reads something like:

I'm lookin for some other well hung guys to chill out and watch porn with, admire our big dicks, wank em and have a few beers etc.



Sometimes the "100%" or "99%" straight guy will request his jack-off partner be "in shape" with "more than 8 inches". One straight guy who was soliciting "dudes to chill and hang with" requested a jack-off partner with a "tight ass".

Sometimes these JO & Compare Sessions start with hanging out, then "beers and a {football} game" before the actual comparison session.

"Just lookin' to hang, chill, have some beers, watch a game...take our dicks out and have fun comparing and jacking" -- is how one poster puts it.


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I come across a lot of interesting threads here. Two guys from the Netherlands put out a personal ad requesting a group of anonymous hot women to sign-up for their "gang bang" -- they were "curious" what a gang-bang felt like and the gang-bang would take place at their apartment.

 

[nudeyorker]

This all sounds like wholesome fun to me!

 

[Bbucko]

The brain is the biggest sex organ of all, WT. One man's masturbatory fantasy can be another's perversion or snooze-fest, depending on his level of limits.

I get PMs occasionally from guys who don't know a thing about me except that I live within 30 miles of them (in a gay mecca like Ft Lauderdale...go figure!) suggesting similar scenarios without knowing that I enjoy a very satisfying sex life. If they really knew the sorts of things that I feel contribute to a really explosive encounter, they'd be locked in the fetal position sobbing into a pillow

 

[D_Portelay Porquesword]

I have recieved invitations to these kinds of compare sessions. Most of these guys have told me that they felt this kind activity did not make them gay. They base their argument on their level of masculinity.

Of course it doesn't matter that they may suck cock, take it up the ass, kiss another guy, or jack off with each other. Just the same as a less masculine guy. This is just another form of denial. Gay sex is gay sex, no matter what the level of masculinity may be.

In my opinion: If you are a man, indentify as being 99 - 100% str8 and your mouth is ANYWHERE on another man AND you are aroused to some degree, best to reevaluate those precentages and your life in general.

This whole thing is just not my scene. Maybe when I was a teenager but as an adult. No.

When I asked some of these guys about this, they promptly denied even being remotely gay.

I have always declined on these offers, I just don't have the stomach for "confused" and "denial". It always winds up in drama.

 

[D_Maurice Mountlilly]

it's gay. nothing wrong with being gay,but it is what it is.
i know of a guy who just loves to jerk off in front of all his male friends..and the male friends love it as well. when i said that had some gay undertones to it some of the guys that watch this guy got upset with me.

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

Pff an occasional jerk with mates doesn't seem gay to me tbh, when we were younger you did it to explore and now u feel comfterable enough to do it. But yeah, that is probably still gay in your opinions

 

[Florida Boy]

it's gay. nothing wrong with being gay,but it is what it is.
i know of a guy who just loves to jerk off in front of all his male friends..and the male friends love it as well. when i said that had some gay undertones to it some of the guys that watch this guy got upset with me.

Is there a bit of hypocrisy there?