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In my years of being sexually active, I haven’t always been careful (not pulling out, just recklessly nutting inside, girls not taking their BC, etc.) so I’ve gotten a lot of different women pregnant. Majority of them resulted in abortions but a lot have also resulted in miscarriages as well which is more common than people think.
recently, me and my best friend started messing around for the past few months .. she got pregnant and we decided we were going to have the baby. Sadly, she got in a car accident and lost our child about two weeks ago. She’s okay. But it’s been a little difficult.
I’ve been reflecting a lot on past situations and how I’ve could’ve/should’ve been a father a plethora times over and wanted to ask if any other men have been through something similar. And if you feel any regret by not having a kid before or ..better yet pushing back on the idea of having one which ultimately resulted in the woman having an abortion.
this may be sensitive but if you don’t mind sharing. If you are a father or even if you’re not .. if abortions or miscarriages weren’t a factor what would be your # versus that amount of kids you actually have?
recently, me and my best friend started messing around for the past few months .. she got pregnant and we decided we were going to have the baby. Sadly, she got in a car accident and lost our child about two weeks ago. She’s okay. But it’s been a little difficult.
I’ve been reflecting a lot on past situations and how I’ve could’ve/should’ve been a father a plethora times over and wanted to ask if any other men have been through something similar. And if you feel any regret by not having a kid before or ..better yet pushing back on the idea of having one which ultimately resulted in the woman having an abortion.
this may be sensitive but if you don’t mind sharing. If you are a father or even if you’re not .. if abortions or miscarriages weren’t a factor what would be your # versus that amount of kids you actually have?