Originally posted by YW5602@Jul 30 2005, 11:07 AM
Have any guys here been rejected by females because of your large size? What did you think and how did you handle it?
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Ahem.
(when did
I become the guy to pull things back on topic?!? I'm somewhat alarmed...
)
Well, YW5602, I've told the story here before somewhere, but here's the one-minute recap:
Years ago when I was young and inexperienced, a bit of a size issue surfaced with a particularly tiny lady. Girth was the issue (never has been since), and we were too young and stupid to consider foreplay and lube as options, so, long story short, she was hurt, we had to stop, and I felt awful. It sort of dovetailed with some other lifelong themes in my life of inadvertently hurting others, so for years I felt badly about this.
Funny what a few years and some experience did for my situation. I've spoken with other men who face size issues with spouses or s.o.'s that no amount of lube and foreplay have been able to surmount.
It's a tough thing.