how do you handle it?does it stop you from approaching someone that you've found attractive?or are you the type to not let it bother you,and just keep on being outgoing?
how do you handle it?does it stop you from approaching someone that you've found attractive?or are you the type to not let it bother you,and just keep on being outgoing?
If you have huge ones, ask the girl who rejected you why she did it and ask her to be honest. Hey I want to know what I did wrong, was it how I dress, how I look, my cologne, or any other reasons why you shot me down.
how do you handle it?does it stop you from approaching someone that you've found attractive?or are you the type to not let it bother you,and just keep on being outgoing?
if i really liked the girl i spend a few weeks getting really drunk and fucking randos to validate my attractiveness. it really isn't healthy but it is a lot of fun
I am talking about being at a bar where you probably won't ever see her again.I don't suggest this because it will probably be seen as weird and will make matters worse because whether you like it or not, people talk about you behind your back.
As for the original questions - I am horrible with rejections. I've only HAD rejections so my fear is high and I know I don't take it very well so I don't take any chances. Besides my fear of rejection, there's also a big fear of what it will do to my confidence. If all the previous rejections have had such a profound affect on me, than my assumption is that another one will make it worse. Out of everyone I've known and the responses so far, I am the worst in this area.
how do you handle it?does it stop you from approaching someone that you've found attractive?or are you the type to not let it bother you,and just keep on being outgoing?
I am talking about being at a bar where you probably won't ever see her again.
it's the same way when you don't get a job, consider it their loss. don't let it penetrate your positive self-image.Otherwise, just accept that, she wasn't into you that way and move on to Miss Next.