Rejection

[leonceswim]

...the nine-letter word that hurts. It happens to me because I have really bad timing, well I ask at the wrong time in their life. It was about an hour ago, I asked the girl out that I have been "talking" to for about two weeks. She's really religious, so that was one thing that I think wouldn't have worked out with me, because of some of her beliefs. She doesn't like grinding and stripping (things I enjoy), but oh well. Oh, her reason was that she broke up with the guy that she was with for two years just last month. So yeah, hows about bad timing for this one? Another one, a while back, said that she didn't want a boyfriend at the time...REJECTION

 

[WildHoney]

I wish you were not in Texas USA, I could help sooth your wounded soul ....in many many, very naughty ways.

x
Honey

P.S rejection sucks, but we all go through it, you are young and have a hot body baby, you will find the one ...in the mean time, just have fun..and remember some lusty old lady is seriously panting over your chest

 

[whatireallywant]

I'm in Texas...:wink:

 

[leonceswim]

lol, thanks. well im panting over your chest too.

 

[leonceswim]

I'm in Texas...:wink:

so, you havnt replied to my pm!

 

[SensualGoth]

I'm in Texas too but that does not mean I wantot jump your bones lol

 

[leonceswim]

I'm in Texas too but that does not mean I wantot jump your bones lol

lol, its cuz your a sensual goth...jk. so what part?

 

[B_hardasarokkk]

WTF is your pic of 'scanner fun', nice ball sac?

 

[whatireallywant]

so, you havnt replied to my pm!

You may want to have a look at this thread:

http://www.lpsg.org/et-cetera-et-cetera/53997-so-why-you-here-then.html

 

[leonceswim]

You may want to have a look at this thread:

http://www.lpsg.org/et-cetera-et-cetera/53997-so-why-you-here-then.html

well if you were me, disappointed about what happened then see what you and that other girl said, it would bring some relief. well another thing is that you used the "im in texas" with the winkwink: ). so how do you expect me to take it?

 

[whatireallywant]

Flirting on the forum is one thing. PM is another. Best to get to know me on the forums first.

 

[leonceswim]

ok. sorry. so what do you do in our town? lol. i like the music scene.

 

[confusedman]

bad approach man!

 

[yngjock20]

Sorry to gravedig, but I didn't want to create another thread if one already existed.


I got rejected last night. That wasn't the worst part. I usually can handle if a guy doesn't want me...but somewhere along the line he felt bad and got the impression that he should probably explain to me why he wasn't interested.

Who does that!?!

My philosophy is, if you're not interested, I'm moving on because the longer I spend thinking about it the greater chance that it will have an effect on me.

So he comes back to find me and says, "Hey, I wasn't trying to be rude back there; it's just that...blah, blah, blah." I was thinking in my head, "Did he really come all the way back to me just to explain why he wasn't interested? Was I looking desperate and crushed? I hope not."

I'm not sure why he did that, but it was really awkward for me. Maybe since we'd had sort of become acquaintances before and he thought of me on a different level, he wanted to do some damage control and salvage the friendship. I'm not sure, but it was definitely the first time that had ever happened to me.

 

[killerb]

rejection sucks & unfortunately it's a part of life...

I usually do all the rejecting because I RARELY put myself out there like that...but the few times I have been shot down, I just went on as if it didn't happen...the worst thing you can do is to dwell on it...