Ok this is my first post on this website but as i can tell from the posts ive looked on your all incredibly helpful and filled with rich information from life experiences so ill start at the beginning and hope someone can help me with some advice or opinions
Well me and my girlfriend will have been going out for a year as of the 19th of march this year, in this space of time we havnt got sexually active, we are both 16 and i want to but she never comes around when i want us to be alone, its not like shes a virgin she has had a lot of sex before she was with me as she used to be a bit of a party go'er, i just dont understand why when she says she loves me, its been her longest relationship and that shes happy, that she doesnt want to have sex with me and im talking about general sex acts as well such as a handjob or blowjob
she does say to me though that she worries that the amazing relationship we have out of sex will be ruined when we do have it
what are youre opinions on this and any possible solutions ?
Much appreciated
Well me and my girlfriend will have been going out for a year as of the 19th of march this year, in this space of time we havnt got sexually active, we are both 16 and i want to but she never comes around when i want us to be alone, its not like shes a virgin she has had a lot of sex before she was with me as she used to be a bit of a party go'er, i just dont understand why when she says she loves me, its been her longest relationship and that shes happy, that she doesnt want to have sex with me and im talking about general sex acts as well such as a handjob or blowjob
she does say to me though that she worries that the amazing relationship we have out of sex will be ruined when we do have it
what are youre opinions on this and any possible solutions ?
Much appreciated