Hello all, Ive had this account on here for a little while now.. using it to read some articles and such.. and i think its time for me to make a post. Im clearly not coming from a sexual stand point.. but would rather like to ask some advice or help.. Im 19 male. and never really had a real girlfriend. The only real girl to ever tell me she liked me was pretty much a "WHORE" or player.. only wanting one thing wich she kind of got.. but not all the way.. .. but anyways.. Ive always blamed my relationship problems on being shy and maybe over weight? Its very hard for me to say anything to someone ive just met. i always have to take time to open up and hold a conversation.... Im around 5'10 and 240lbs. I know im not HUGE but im over weight for my age and height and i don't have the type of body that girls drool over... . I would really love to be in a relationship but i don't know where to start. Everytime i think i like someone.. i always put myself down by saying your fat.. or your too shy.. you have nothing in common. I dont really look a lot for girls because i know ill put myself down.. and just end up scrapping any thoughts of trying to be more than friends. Recently i talked to a girl.. ONLINE. But she lived around 20 min away.. I Called her.. she called me. and we texted a lot and chatted online... but never really met. I sen't her pictures of me.. and she sent me of her.. but we never met.. but she apprently seen me in walmart.. OF ALL PLACES... and never came up and talked to me or anything ( I DIDNT SEE HER OR KNOW SHE WAS IN THE STORE) and when i told her it was me (OVER A TEXT MESSAGE LATER THAT DAY) she pretty much made up excuses why she could call me/text me and ignored me a lot... we no longer talk. Its really starting to eat at me.. I find myself thinking about a relationship more and more.... what should i do. I suppose im doomed to be alone? THANKS IN ADVANCE -John.