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Heyo, to anyone out there that is willing to listen. Sorry this is one of the rare threads that isn't sexual...
But I was hoping to get some advice/wise words/encouragement...
Over the last year it just seems like having any sort of healthy relationship or relationship in general just seems impossible for me. Even though I have guys interested I just seem to be in this constant state of disappointment, angry, sad, lonely, etc...
I just feel like I can't really connect with anyone. I have a fairly decent amount of guys interested in me, but I am just not interested in them. And I feel constantly guilty for not being interested in them, (like am I too shallow?) And then the very rare guy I actually really like never works out.
And I know everyone is just going to be like "oh stop focusing on it because it happens when you least expect it" - but when its something you really want its hard to just "stop".
I'm probably just whining but it feels like something that is so easy for everyone else is just impossible for me.
But I was hoping to get some advice/wise words/encouragement...
Over the last year it just seems like having any sort of healthy relationship or relationship in general just seems impossible for me. Even though I have guys interested I just seem to be in this constant state of disappointment, angry, sad, lonely, etc...
I just feel like I can't really connect with anyone. I have a fairly decent amount of guys interested in me, but I am just not interested in them. And I feel constantly guilty for not being interested in them, (like am I too shallow?) And then the very rare guy I actually really like never works out.
And I know everyone is just going to be like "oh stop focusing on it because it happens when you least expect it" - but when its something you really want its hard to just "stop".
I'm probably just whining but it feels like something that is so easy for everyone else is just impossible for me.