Only been in two serious relationships (one could barely be called a relationship).
The first girl was my first love and treated me like a booty call and never wanted to commit, but just keep it casual. That worked for one of us so it was me constantly getting screwed over. I'm over her and putting up with that bullshit.
Just recently I ended it with a girl who I had been dating for 8 months and we clicked on all levels, she understood my need for space with school and respected me doing my own thing. The past 2 weeks I have been on vacation and we've been glued at the hip, so feelings of anxiety of life as a single man kept popping into my head. Rather than asking for space, I panicked and dumped her. I've been sitting here for the past two days contemplating what made me do it.
I plan to travel in a year or two after school so that was kind of my thought, but now the more I think about it so much could change in a year or two like not traveling. So it almost seems silly to end something good for something in the future.
Is it normal to have thoughts of the single life in a long-term relationship or did I act too hastily?
I just need some people to talk with and some advice
The first girl was my first love and treated me like a booty call and never wanted to commit, but just keep it casual. That worked for one of us so it was me constantly getting screwed over. I'm over her and putting up with that bullshit.
Just recently I ended it with a girl who I had been dating for 8 months and we clicked on all levels, she understood my need for space with school and respected me doing my own thing. The past 2 weeks I have been on vacation and we've been glued at the hip, so feelings of anxiety of life as a single man kept popping into my head. Rather than asking for space, I panicked and dumped her. I've been sitting here for the past two days contemplating what made me do it.
I plan to travel in a year or two after school so that was kind of my thought, but now the more I think about it so much could change in a year or two like not traveling. So it almost seems silly to end something good for something in the future.
Is it normal to have thoughts of the single life in a long-term relationship or did I act too hastily?
I just need some people to talk with and some advice