after a very sucessful 14 year relationship with my partner he decided to leave in july/august without giving me any reasons. he asked me not to ask him to come back home as i "would convince him to".....we still meet once a week to chat but until recently i still wasnt allowed to ask why he left. he told me saturday that someone had told him i was seeing someone else which was blatantly not true....i had never been unfaithful to him or any previous partner,etc. i was also working around 80 hours a week or so and my partner was with me 90% of the time- business together.i do not own a mobile phone,etc.i cant see how i a supposed to have found the time to meet anyone even if i was inclined to do so - which im not. the advice id like to ask is what do i do to win my partner back as it has affected both him and myself terribly (he had a breakdown after he left).....he now has his own flat,is getting medication and therapy too (he has other issues i cant discuss - but i always supported him with them in relationship) ive told him the door is open for him if he wishes to return,my family have treated him like he was with me throught our time apart....they are distraught for us both as much as i am. what do i have to do to win my partner back?.and if he cant face coming back what do i do to move on.......i dont know if our friendship would last if he decided to say no......be grateful for any genuine replies please-no weiro's please.