Hi Right so my gf lives a two (and a half-ish) hour train ride away and I can only see her once every two weeks, one day a week for two weeks in a row everytime the pigs lift off. I asked her did she like going out with me, she said yes. And of course I like goin out with her too. She said she loves me, I said I love her. Then I asked her is there any point us goin out if we can only see each other for a few hours once every two weeks, with her staying over here once a month if I'm lucky, more often its bimonthly or less. She though I was trying to break up with her, I wasn't, I was just asking her what she thought of our relationship. I want us to be like a proper bf and gf and see each other at least more often than now. Of course she got upset...And we said we want to stay together etc but then she said I should get a gf near me, which all my family have been saying to me. That gets on my nerves but I havent said anything to them because I'm so unassertive (if that's a word). Anyway I told her how I'm a headcase and I don't feel I deserve anything, most of all her. She told me I wasnt and that she wasnt anything special, which isnt true. So basically now she thinks I want to break up with her but I dont...she says we should still go out and I want that too but I wonder if what I've said has changed her now and she'll just be different with me in some way... Now I have a few 'issues' and even though I dont like use people dying as an excuse for my mixed up state of mind I admit that they are probably a reason...But I want this girl more than anything, just to be with her, and I cant... Um...basically do you think I should continue this relationship, extremely long distance though it is? I have a counselling session on May 12th... I also have no job and no direction in life, no aim or ambition and I feel lost and like everyone else is movin and I'm just stuck still. Sorry about this (long) post and thanks for reading. Some advice please. Thanks.