My BF and I have been together for 3 years. I'm 53 and he's 23. For the last several months everything seems to go sideways. Sex is almost non existent and when we have sex it's more like he's masturbating than making love. He doesn't hold me (I'm bottom), no kissing at all, and when it's over, it's over. He washes and goes to sleep. He is constantly in need of cuddling which is fine for me but he doesn't cuddle back. His kisses are pecks not full on kissing. He does not like rimming (though he did when we met), he won't try bottoming because he thinks I'm too big (7" is not TOO BIG). And he's always asking me if I love him. And lately he seems to be encouraging either a three way. Oh, and I was offered a job in the US and when I told him he was excited - "when do you leave", etc? Doesn't all of this sound just a bit strange? There is an age and definitely an experience difference. I don't cheat on him (though God, I've thought about it). I am quite content with everything in my life and I thought he was too. He goes out with his friends from school (he's in an MBA program) because he feels that he does not want to miss out on this part of his life and I don't blame him but I'm wondering who else he might be seeing. Am I over reacting or is all of the above cause for concern? Thanks for your thoughts.