In regards to sex which is only aspect I can really comment on here, with men, its been easy, convenient and without any hassles or games, before, during or after. As a bottom, Ive almost always made myself available when my partner wants to hook up, similarly with my partner too whenever I have had the urge and contacted him. During the actual sex encounter, there is a dominance, power and control game which my partner has over me, its what I want, what we want and what makes us happy and have enjoyable sex. Outside of sex, we treat each other as equals, if anything, my partner goes out of his way to be extra nice and sweet to me.
With women, having casual sex and hookups are not as easy, well for me it isnt. There is a degree of foreplay involved, be it catching up for coffee, dinner, movie, date etc and there is some work involved to progress towards having sex. Sure there are times when a booty call happens, most times though its instigated by her, than myself. Post sex, I always ensure that contact her to make sure everything is ok and I guess extra nice and sweet to her, a bit of a role reversal. The problem with casual sex with women, is that inevitably down the track it leads them to wanting some form of committment and or relationship which complicates things.