Relationship with man vs woman

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I'm a bisexual man who has been in romantic relationships exclusively with women. I was wondering, what are the main differences in a relationship with a man with respect to a relationship with a woman? What are the "pros" and "cons" of each of the two (both in terms of commitment, sex life, day to day tasks, etc.)? Any kind of experience/opinion is super appreciated!
 

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I'm a bisexual man who has been in romantic relationships exclusively with women. I was wondering, what are the main differences in a relationship with a man with respect to a relationship with a woman? What are the "pros" and "cons" of each of the two (both in terms of commitment, sex life, day to day tasks, etc.)? Any kind of experience/opinion is super appreciated!

In regards to sex which is only aspect I can really comment on here, with men, its been easy, convenient and without any hassles or games, before, during or after. As a bottom, Ive almost always made myself available when my partner wants to hook up, similarly with my partner too whenever I have had the urge and contacted him. During the actual sex encounter, there is a dominance, power and control game which my partner has over me, its what I want, what we want and what makes us happy and have enjoyable sex. Outside of sex, we treat each other as equals, if anything, my partner goes out of his way to be extra nice and sweet to me.

With women, having casual sex and hookups are not as easy, well for me it isnt. There is a degree of foreplay involved, be it catching up for coffee, dinner, movie, date etc and there is some work involved to progress towards having sex. Sure there are times when a booty call happens, most times though its instigated by her, than myself. Post sex, I always ensure that contact her to make sure everything is ok and I guess extra nice and sweet to her, a bit of a role reversal. The problem with casual sex with women, is that inevitably down the track it leads them to wanting some form of committment and or relationship which complicates things.
 

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In regards to sex which is only aspect I can really comment on here, with men, its been easy, convenient and without any hassles or games, before, during or after. As a bottom, Ive almost always made myself available when my partner wants to hook up, similarly with my partner too whenever I have had the urge and contacted him. During the actual sex encounter, there is a dominance, power and control game which my partner has over me, its what I want, what we want and what makes us happy and have enjoyable sex. Outside of sex, we treat each other as equals, if anything, my partner goes out of his way to be extra nice and sweet to me.

With women, having casual sex and hookups are not as easy, well for me it isnt. There is a degree of foreplay involved, be it catching up for coffee, dinner, movie, date etc and there is some work involved to progress towards having sex. Sure there are times when a booty call happens, most times though its instigated by her, than myself. Post sex, I always ensure that contact her to make sure everything is ok and I guess extra nice and sweet to her, a bit of a role reversal. The problem with casual sex with women, is that inevitably down the track it leads them to wanting some form of committment and or relationship which complicates things.
Yup. All of that. I find that things tend to be more straightforward with guys, easy, relaxed. With women, in my experience, it kinda feels more like game-playing, deal-making, like there's an unspoken "agenda" (put a ring on it? lol). Neither is better or worse. Just depends on which version interests you more.
 
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Women under age 30 can be very pretty, but men of all ages are usually more honest and caring.......usually less dramas with anything sexual with men ( once you find your type or tribe )
Women over 30 are better looking than under, but this is subjective!
 
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There not, women hit the wall at 30.

Women over 30 are easier to smash though. Their looks are on the decline.
We will have to agree to disagree on when women look there best. 30+ is far more appealing for me!
As for men though, if you are a young bottom you’ll definitely find that men will have sex with you at the drop of a hat
 
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We will have to agree to disagree on when women look there best. 30+ is far more appealing for me!
As for men though, if you are a young bottom you’ll definitely find that men will have sex with you at the drop of a hat
I can respect our differences.

True beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
 
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This might be just my experiences but I have found my male partners, can at times during sex be very physically aggressive, strong and man handle me, choking, slapping, pinching, pulling hair etc, but with my female partners while I have rough sex, its never ever to that level that when I have with men.

While my male partners like to demonstrate their control and dominance over me, I definitely do so less with girls, but it does happen. I enjoy the contrasting roles that sex with different genders has. Its that difference that makes it unique and enjoyable and makes bi sex all the more better.

Bottom line is that everyone is consenting and happy with roles undertaken, so we enjoy it for what it is, pure carnal pleasure.
 

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Does anyone else feel more pressure in a relationship with a woman vs a man? Maybe because the “rules” are so defined by society in m/f relationships (wether you follow them or not). Just wondering.
Rules are defnitely 100% different. At least for me.

Good post, in terms of during sex, with a girl Im always making sure she is ok and comfortable with anything and everything during foreplay and following., also follow up messaging afterwards too.

With guys, the sex just happens, there is no consent given or asked. I guess basically from my perspective the foreplay is arranging the hookup and consent is given when we both agree about a time when to meet.
 
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Rules are defnitely 100% different. At least for me.

Good post, in terms of during sex, with a girl Im always making sure she is ok and comfortable with anything and everything during foreplay and following., also follow up messaging afterwards too.

With guys, the sex just happens, there is no consent given or asked. I guess basically from my perspective the foreplay is arranging the hookup and consent is given when we both agree about a time when to meet.
Sounds about right.