bisexuality has always been something i have struggled to understand. obviously i understand the basic premise of it but not much beyond that. it just seems so alien to me that you can be attracted to both sexes and i am hear to gain understanding and have my questions answered. to be honest i have one burning question about lasting relationships and bisexual men, which is basically: is it possible? a lasting, loving and monogamous relationship is incredibly important to me and i suppose you could say im looking for 'the one' to spend the rest of my life with that one person, but is this even possible to find with a bisexual person? obviously everyone is entitled to talk about all aspects of bisexuality and i welcome it as part of me understanding more.