Ay, so this has probably been done before but i am too lazy to look. Relationships: for other gay members, and straight/bi as well, how do you go about finding a relationship? I've always been a pretty independent guy but since I came out (~6 months ago) I've been desiring to be in a relationship. It's not even about the physical to me anymore. Don't get me wrong, the physical is fun but I've done that and it just doesn't make me happy. I try and get out there, I went to gay clubs but the type of people there just don't interest me. Call me old fashion but in those instances I like to know the person who is grinding on me. I love conversation and getting to know someone without have to question if they are only trying to get in my pants. I've always been a relationship type of guy and definitely love the masculine type of guy. but how do you meet people? Or maybe I should stop looking, and let it find me? any advice would be greatly appreciated.