Ack! I really want to be in one, but it seems there are no gay people around. I go to college in the bay area, so you think that there would be plenty of people to pick from. Well, there aren't. I suppose it's because I'm in east bay. I just don't have the kind of money to go SF every weekend... I suppose I have to go to places where gay men are. Still, I wish it wasn't so much work to find someone! I guess I'm just impatient and tired of get crushes on straight guys. It starts getting annoying after awhile when you realize every guy you're attracted to will never look at you the same way. I really don't want to be in a meaningless sexual relationship. I want something more concrete than thaaaat. I know there's not much you guys and gals can help me with, but I thought I'd bring up the subject here anyway.