Relaxing or tensing up when you cum

[Snarfblat]

Just wondering if anybody noticed a difference in the quallity of their orgasms when they relax versus tense up when they cum. Do you tend to shoot more, farther and/or harder when you do either one or is there no difference ?

 

[tlbuncut5]

I relax, and enjoy the flow. I find that I cum more, and my orgasum last's longer by relaxing. I seem to shoot further when i tense up, and not as far when i relax.

 

[grower_60]

Relaxing is an "edging" technique.
Relax to keep yourself in the sensation of ejaculation without actually ejaculating. A sate of bliss. :hypnotized:

 

[AustinTX]

I purposely tense up while I JO and then just as my orgasm begins I relax and enjoy. Orgasm last much longer.

 

[DeepDish]

Hey Snarblat:

see this related thread

http://www.lpsg.org/199107-relaxed-vs-tensed-while-ejaculating.html

grower_60{/b] is right about using edging to train yourself to relax at orgasm. Relaxed for me = more and stronger contractions. Which is goooooood. I outlined a "training program" in that thread that is fun to do.

 

[SyddyKitty]

When I relax, my orgasm simply doesn't feel as good. I purposely tense up.

 

[Snarfblat]

Hey Snarblat:

see this related thread

http://www.lpsg.org/199107-relaxed-vs-tensed-while-ejaculating.html

grower_60{/b] is right about using edging to train yourself to relax at orgasm. Relaxed for me = more and stronger contractions. Which is goooooood. I outlined a "training program" in that thread that is fun to do.

Thanks. I saw that thread before and wanted to post my question there but when I logged back into the forum, I couldn't find it for some reason. Must have used the wrong search terms.

 

[DeepDish]

Snarfblat: Sorry I screwed up your user name in that post!

Call me Dee Dish sometime to get back at me, ok? :smile: