Just wondering if anybody noticed a difference in the quallity of their orgasms when they relax versus tense up when they cum. Do you tend to shoot more, farther and/or harder when you do either one or is there no difference ?
I've thought about relaxing during orgasm to compare but I find myself always automatically tensing up. I want the most intense orgasm I can get and I don't want to relax if there is a chance it won't be as strong. I do want to try it sometime, just to compare.
I relax, and enjoy the flow. I find that I cum more, and my orgasum last's longer by relaxing. I seem to shoot further when i tense up, and not as far when i relax.
Relaxing is an "edging" technique. Relax to keep yourself in the sensation of ejaculation without actually ejaculating. A sate of bliss. :hypnotized:
I purposely tense up while I JO and then just as my orgasm begins I relax and enjoy. Orgasm last much longer.
Hey Snarblat: see this related thread http://www.lpsg.org/199107-relaxed-vs-tensed-while-ejaculating.html grower_60{/b] is right about using edging to train yourself to relax at orgasm. Relaxed for me = more and stronger contractions. Which is goooooood. I outlined a "training program" in that thread that is fun to do.
Thanks. I saw that thread before and wanted to post my question there but when I logged back into the forum, I couldn't find it for some reason. Must have used the wrong search terms.
Snarfblat: Sorry I screwed up your user name in that post! Call me Dee Dish sometime to get back at me, ok? :smile:
