Relaxing or tensing up when you cum

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  1. Snarfblat

    Snarfblat New Member

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    Just wondering if anybody noticed a difference in the quallity of their orgasms when they relax versus tense up when they cum. Do you tend to shoot more, farther and/or harder when you do either one or is there no difference ?
     
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    I've thought about relaxing during orgasm to compare but I find myself always automatically tensing up. I want the most intense orgasm I can get and I don't want to relax if there is a chance it won't be as strong. I do want to try it sometime, just to compare.
     
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    I relax, and enjoy the flow. I find that I cum more, and my orgasum last's longer by relaxing. I seem to shoot further when i tense up, and not as far when i relax.
     
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    Relaxing is an "edging" technique.
    Relax to keep yourself in the sensation of ejaculation without actually ejaculating. A sate of bliss. :hypnotized:
     
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    I purposely tense up while I JO and then just as my orgasm begins I relax and enjoy. Orgasm last much longer.
     
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    When I relax, my orgasm simply doesn't feel as good. I purposely tense up. :p
     
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    Thanks. I saw that thread before and wanted to post my question there but when I logged back into the forum, I couldn't find it for some reason. Must have used the wrong search terms.
     
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    Snarfblat: Sorry I screwed up your user name in that post!

    Call me Dee Dish sometime to get back at me, ok? :smile:
     
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