Several points:
"God loves the sinner but hates the sin." The actual definition of sin is separation from God, not acts of human beings. Thus, any act is sinful if it searates you from God. What separates me from God may not separate you from God. God is love. Of course God wants the best for us and anytime we make poor choices that hurt us he is grieved. Because if you read the Gospels about Jesus which really tell what is true about Christianity, God dearly loves all people and wants what is truly best for them.
God does know and almost every homosexual knows that being gay is tough in life.
The Bible: The quotes about homosexuality cover two or three sentences in all of the 66 books. In both cases, modern liberal Christians interpret the context to be about the fertility religions. In ancient times, sex was part of some of the religions. God in the Bible condmens that along with using children and women. Sex is not a part of worship.
People are homophobic. The communists were the most homophobic of all and they did not believe in God. Since a majority of Americns claim to be Christian though many of them have never been in a church, it makes it appear that it is Christinaity driving homophobia. In reality, it is people driving the beliefs of their local church.
It is wrong according to Jesus to hate anyone. So anyone homophobic is sinning in the eyes of God. Their hatred of gays drives a wedge between them and God.
As to the remark about preachers not recognnizing gays in public. Hell, many of the pastors in some denominations of Christinaity are openly gay themselves.
My pastor and myself a staff member are very close to a gay couuple. They are openly gay. Both part of our church and have just been asked by me to serve on a committee.
Religion is quite often just the reflection of the people who profess to believe in it. Keep this in mind.
Many people only mean gays they don't know. Family members and friends who are gay don't count. They are OK.
And Freddie is NOT I REPEAT NOT a member of a fundie Christian group that is currently part of the Republican moral issues group. Never has been. Never will be.
Freddie is a proud member of a liberal main line American Christian Church that has little in common with the fundies, very little. We both believe in the Bible, but the belief is radically different, radically different.
Freddie cringes when he hears himself being lumped with the fundies.
Freddie also bellieves that some of those fundies are politicians who are as fake as a three dollar bill when it comes to Christianity.
Jesus taught love, not hate. Peace not war. And I could go on.
If a person is full of hate how can that person be like Jesus?
As much as I love church. I would stay home if only a fundie Church were available for me to attend.