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does that piss you off? I think there are a lot of them. people who are curious but decide to never do it. Thats one of the interesting things about being bi is you don't have to act on it and society reinforces you not to.
 

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I have chatted to a lot of curious guys. It doesn't piss me off, as I was in their shoes once. I answer their questions and try to put their minds at ease. Some, I know, will never make the leap, but at least they connected to the possiblity. Those that do go for it usually tell me it's the best thing they ever did.
 

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does that piss you off? I think there are a lot of them. people who are curious but decide to never do it. Thats one of the interesting things about being bi is you don't have to act on it and society reinforces you not to.
No, why should it.
We should actively support and encourage these guys to move to the a physical encounter, butt also we need to appreciate for some physical encounter is not what they are after, see images of guys may be all they need to satisfy they level of bi
 
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It doesn't make me angry. Wherever an individual is at is okay. I've never been interested in having sex with someone who is unsure or outright not interested in doing it with me.
 
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No, why should it.
We should actively support and encourage these guys to move to the a physical encounter, butt also we need to appreciate for some physical encounter is not what they are after, see images of guys may be all they need to satisfy they level of bi
okay just wondering really because id imagine to "almost" hookup with someone and have them backout could be frustrating.
 
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okay just wondering really because id imagine to "almost" hookup with someone and have them backout could be frustrating.
And that's the thing: Bi curious men have a high tendency to back out at the last minute. For multiple reasons. That flags bi curious as "flakes" to some. I know it pisses off the experienced "ready for now" men on hookup sites.
 

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okay just wondering really because id imagine to "almost" hookup with someone and have them backout could be frustrating.
I agree it is very frustrating when a guy backs out of doing something that had been discussed in the pre hook up chat / email
 

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I actually haven't had that experience thank god. All guys I've met at least go thru with the encounter, some regret afterward and experience guilt though (usually from a religious motive)
 
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I’m so reluctant to even get to the point of backing out. If I’m there… face to face….. nah. I’m not backing out. I’m yours
Yea same here. Don’t think I’ll ever get the chance, but if I do, I’m going for it.
 
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I'll talk to any guy about whatever they are curious about. I wouldn't in a million years volunteer to "show them the ropes". They can learn with other curious guys and if they want to go further we can talk. I had one or two guys get cold feet and run out on me; never again. Unless he's the captain of the university swim team, then I might have to make an exception.
 

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does that piss you off? I think there are a lot of them. people who are curious but decide to never do it. Thats one of the interesting things about being bi is you don't have to act on it and society reinforces you not to.
I guess I'm sort of in that category. I've only done anything with one guy and if he hadn't initiated it I never would have.