SandraSmithCarver
Sexy Member
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- 90% Straight, 10% Gay
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It all sounds very complicated, it must be rough being a Gay man
Very true. I apologize for making it appear otherwise. I know committed couples who just have oral even though they used to enjoy anal sex.
I want to add that it was not easy to become versatile. Even after I decided that I wanted to experience bottoming, it was not easy. I had to learn how to prep, relax, and what felt good for me and what did not. Good luck with that. There can be a lot of pleasure in being on the receiving end.
There's no need to apologize. My comment wasn't directed at you.
There are a lot of complex reasons I want to do it. The hard part is finding a person and place where I feel safe exploring it. Much of why I want to be able to do it is because I want to be able to give that to another person, to offer him the joy that I know I receive in penetrating and releasing myself within him. That's something I want to share with a person I love though I acknowledge that I will need to learn how to do it with other men first.
There is another reason but I can't quite talk about that yet.
It all sounds very complicated, it must be rough being a Gay man
... might enjoy a good smacking,:biggrin1::wink: but I'm not going to be a reluctant bottom boy.
It all sounds very complicated, it must be rough being a Gay man
It's not really all that complicated. Trust me when I say that such things are qualified and negotiated very early on, along with HIV status. Practice makes perfect :biggrin1:.
The most important thing is knowing what you want and how and where to find it. Everything else is just small-talk.
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Thanks for adding those points. I've been trying to say it and not getting it across successfully.
It's not really all that complicated. Trust me when I say that such things are qualified and negotiated very early on, along with HIV status. Practice makes perfect :biggrin1:.
It seems complicated for heteros because we don't approach it that way. As far as HIV goes, you are honest about it, but many people are not.