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Hello all
Well, almost two years ago a very good friend and I had a disagreement. Prior to that we were good friends, helped each other with the problems in our lives, and occasionally enjoyed sexually intimate times.
Post-pandemic I gave him some work to do in my garden. He was self-employed and had started to recover his business after the lengthy covid lockdowns. He had previously done other work for me and was completed to a very good standard. Sadly, on this occasion it didn’t work out. I really wanted him to return and put things right but he declined and gave me a partial refund. He wouldn’t reply to any messages, blocked telephone numbers, and generally ‘ghosted’.
I sent birthday and Christmas cards but nothing in return. Just prior to Christmas this year I attempted to deliver a small gift. He opened his door, saw it was me, and promptly closed the door.
It’s sad and I know that I ought to get over it. I do think about him everyday and the friendship we had and enjoyed. I’m hurting and I am sure that he is too. If only we could meet and allow each of us to explain how we feel and reach for reconciliation.
So, do I give it more time and the space he needs or should I forget about him and move on?
Thanks for reading. Wishing you all the best for the New Year.
Well, almost two years ago a very good friend and I had a disagreement. Prior to that we were good friends, helped each other with the problems in our lives, and occasionally enjoyed sexually intimate times.
Post-pandemic I gave him some work to do in my garden. He was self-employed and had started to recover his business after the lengthy covid lockdowns. He had previously done other work for me and was completed to a very good standard. Sadly, on this occasion it didn’t work out. I really wanted him to return and put things right but he declined and gave me a partial refund. He wouldn’t reply to any messages, blocked telephone numbers, and generally ‘ghosted’.
I sent birthday and Christmas cards but nothing in return. Just prior to Christmas this year I attempted to deliver a small gift. He opened his door, saw it was me, and promptly closed the door.
It’s sad and I know that I ought to get over it. I do think about him everyday and the friendship we had and enjoyed. I’m hurting and I am sure that he is too. If only we could meet and allow each of us to explain how we feel and reach for reconciliation.
So, do I give it more time and the space he needs or should I forget about him and move on?
Thanks for reading. Wishing you all the best for the New Year.