Reporting Of Madonna 'small Dick' Ridicule

[stustu]

Madonna is a has been hag.

 

[Llbaker]

Madonna is a has been hag.

But that demeans others past their prime and losing their looks. Why not condemn her for her misdeeds instead of things over which she has no control.

 

[Llbaker]

@Llbaker You don't hold others to the same standard by which you hold yourself. You allow yourself not to speak on others issues. And yet....expect others to speak about yours.

And now. I get that too.

But that is not true.

I even speak on the issues of others you mention in person, in public as well as here.

Plenty of push back here on those issues, so it just isn't my focus.

 

[DeclanBrent]

But that is not true.

I even speak on the issues of others you mention in person, in public as well as here.

Plenty of push back here on those issues, so it just isn't my focus.

This problem - the problem of size shamers being permitted to get away with size shaming - will never be addressed until something big happens. A celebrity talks about a younger brother who committed suicide because of being size shamed by a girlfriend or his friends. And even that won't bring down the walls. It'll take several such cases, or variations of cases, to spike the public consciousness and get people talking about it. Like MeToo suddenly broke the sexual harassment wall. I doubt it will happen in this generation, especially because porn has exacerbated the issue rather than created a platform for rational discussion.
And there is no gender that's blameless here. It's not just men who belittle their fellow men, it's women too. Size shamers come in all colours, genders, orientations - even small guys can be cruel to their fellow smalls.

 

[Llbaker]

Nothing she ever told me was randomly or to hurt me - in fact, whenever she told me anything, she suffixed it with the statement, sincerely said, that she loved me more than any man she'd been with, and from that POV size was almost completely irrelevant.

You are lucky the way things worked-out. In your case, you were lucky she was experience and your personal relationship powerful enough to withstand the shock.

 

[ripsrips]

Ok, we're talking about shaming here, especially public shaming, not selecting large if that is what you want.

I'll go back to when

@ripsrips At least you're honest. That's better than being a hypocrite. Of course, what you say about your gal friend and her friends is exactly what me and fellow smalls instinctively know and fear, despite the endless chorus of people here and elsewhere who insist until their eyes pop out that size really doesn't matter to hardly anybody.

The question I'd have for you is after you'd played around with the small, and decided to never see them again, did you trash talk them to your friends?
No, I didn't trash talk, I did mention that that man was small, but not not to discourage anyone from meeting them.
My comment was, "that guy I hooked up with was pretty small" I left it at that. I never put any thought about them again. I moved on.
Did you mention they were small to anybody who might meet them afterwards? Nope, as there is someone out there that might find him irresistible. Do you approve of people being able to say, regardless of their audience, that small just doesn't cut it? If it's with your group of friends say what you want about cock size, just don't go out of your way to point the man out.
And, for my own selfish validation, where are you drawing the limit at small? 4 inches would be tough to make a commitment to. How small would a guy have to be for you to never want to see him again?

 

[ripsrips]

@ripsrips At least you're honest. That's better than being a hypocrite. Of course, what you say about your gal friend and her friends is exactly what me and fellow smalls instinctively know and fear, despite the endless chorus of people here and elsewhere who insist until their eyes pop out that size really doesn't matter to hardly anybody.

The question I'd have for you is after you'd played around with the small, and decided to never see them again, did you trash talk them to your friends? Did you mention they were small to anybody who might meet them afterwards? Do you approve of people being able to say, regardless of their audience, that small just doesn't cut it? And, for my own selfish validation, where are you drawing the limit at small? How small would a guy have to be for you to never want to see him again?

BTW
I filled my answers in my reply above you should have to click and expand.
I put them in bold following each of your questions

 

[Llbaker]

@LilJock I'm glad my experience struck a note with you. I'm sure there are many millions of women who feel the same about their male partners as our female partners feel/felt about us. Realistically, I know that my size insecurities are (a) symptomatic of wider personal insecurities and (b) not completely rooted in reality - ie the majority of women (I hope) would not reject me or you based on size alone.

I agree with you on unnecessary size put-downs, which are now taboo when it's a man shaming a woman in any respect but particilarly in a physical respect and most especially in relation to genitalia.

That said, I should point out that abuse comes in many forms, including repeated, sustained put downs that chip away at a person's self esteem with damaging ramifications. I've previously related the story of my closest friend many years ago who saw me soft at the urinal. That's all it took to start a torrent of put downs that started just between the two of us and then seeped into our wider friendship circle until I eventually couldn't have an interaction with him without a sly dig being made. It got into my head so completely that I even began to see digs when they weren't there, and I started questioning myself 'is it really that terrible,such a crime, to have a small dick?'

After months of angst about dumping the best friend I've ever had, like a brother to me, I finally flipped when his girlfriend, with him sneering nearby, made a blatant dig to me about how unappealing 'acorn head' penises but, she said sweetly, 'don't worry, we all know you don't have one'. The joke was on me. That could be classified as merely a put down but at that point I saw it as abuse, pure and simple, and cut he ties.

I felt good at finally having made a stand but even to this day mourn the loss of that great friendship - all because of a couple of seconds at a fucking urinal.

The enthusiastic response of audiences to small penis humor reveals the sadism just below the surface of most people's personas.

 

[Llbaker]

@LilJockI felt good at finally having made a stand but even to this day mourn the loss of that great friendship - all because of a couple of seconds at a fucking urinal.

Yes, I am very familiar with that scenario. Not always a urinal as there are many happenstances that inevitably reveal size in a peer group.

Sometimes the abuse is not as dramatic as you described. Often it is patronization and assigning subtly lower status.

It is interesting to me that many people want to deny or dismiss this dynamic. Claiming things like "No one knows about your penis size unless you show it to them." or "No one cares about you penis." That's for sure.

Right like we're supposed to go to extraordinary lengths to hide it? A reveal in itself.

 

[Llbaker]

How did Madonna come into this conversation?

Topic of thread?

 

[hotvot]

Sorry, I hear straight guys talking shit about every aspect of women all the time, I'm a bartender and I hear everything....
however shaming small dicks in my opinion is messed up, because I know how much ego is involved in this... the solution would be to stop letting our ego be so attached to our cock size... but wait... where are we?? the Large Penis Support Group... so yeah... none of us can say too much really, without being hypocrites

But this site isn't exclusively for large penises... There are many small to average cocks posted on here.

 

[DeclanBrent]

@ohiorod Thank you for your wonderful post.

 

[Llbaker]

But women can laugh off losing a guy with a little one to another woman. In fact, a girl might wanna take out a billboard to advertise the fact! Revenge is best served up for all the world to see.

When do people realize that you can't attack or shame in public one guy for having a small penis without attacking and shaming all men with small penises who are exposed to the public message?

Vengence might be appropriate in one case, but certainly not for all affected by the communication. Same applies to other areas of shaming: fat, gender identity, looks, etc etc. How about shaming for what a person did wrong, not misc. things that come to mind?

 

[Llbaker]

I was genetically more lucky, but I feel no superiority or power. I certainly didn’t earn the additional length and I far more admire people who have honed their unique talents and far outshine me as a man.

Great post. But do you really feel NO superiority or power? Sure, ethical modesty and restraint. . . .??

Penis size often affects heterosexual relations too, though I certainly understand your focus as an HIV counselor.

 

[big_love]

A shocking example of the continued prejudice and bias by not only celebrities (in this case Madonna) but by the media: her recent concert in London, in which said she'd never been with a man with a small penis because 'size matters' was sympathetically reported by the Metro Friday 31 January), the UK's most widely distributed newspaper, whose female reporter said the comments 'made the tickets worth the price'.
There needs to be some sort of commission now for hate speech and body shaming. If this was said by a male star about women's breasts and vaginas and a male reporter said that the comments made the ticket price worth it, there would be an uproar the likes we have t seen for years.

I like big butts and I cannot lie...

 

[DeclanBrent]

All are entitled to their opinion and preference.

Yes. But are all entitled to ridicule that which is not their preference?

 

[jjonesdelano]

With this news, I will suspend my campaign on trying to hook up with Madonna. I am clearly a few inches short for the task.

 

[dreamer20]

Yes. But are all entitled to ridicule that which is not their preference?

Not only that, all are entitled to ridicule Madonna as well I noticed.

 

[Mike hung]

I don't think it's hate speech, she's just expressing her opinions and that she likes bigger dicks. It's quite reasonable that small dicks don't do anything for her, my wife is the same, she can't even feel a small/average size dick.

 

[TuckMeUnder]

Not only that, all are entitled to ridicule Madonna as well I noticed.

Her vagina size? On stage, to millions of viewers?

Dreamer20 raises an interesting point, though, considering the amount of Madonna-bashing this thread has attracted.

Don't forget, the reporting did not characterise Madonna's punch line as any sort of ridicule. You added that yourself.

Also, the reporting characterised Madonna's punch line as complimentary to all her male partners. You omitted that yourself.

But I concede the reporter also said Madonna added "...size matters!" as a stinger. Besides, it doesn't really matter whether the thread topic was word-for-word accurate: LPSG users obviously found the topic to be worth 14 pages of critical discussion, and they had lots to share.