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@spaj8987 This isn't about those other isms. If it was, I would've posted about some dim Neanderthal making a racial or homophobic or Islamophobic comment. What we're talking about here is body shaming of the penis size variety. As we on this site, and not in the twisted forest of the Internet, can agree on is that those aforementioned isms are outlawed by all who are fairly minded, good, decent, honest people. My point is and always has been - why can't the same good, decent, honest folk who screw their noses up at what we here all agree are bad isms, screw their noses up and take issue with a form of body shaming that is so very obviously and blatantly aimed at a small group of people who have no great big moral voice backing them up?
As I've said before, my reasoning behind this is that women generally aren't going to shout support for small guys as their boyfriends or husbands will then automatically be earmarked as small; no guy is going to shout out for the smalls because then he's earmarked as small; and no small is going to shout out because that's drawing attention to the very thing he's ashamed of.
I'll speak out all day long against the racists and homophobes and bigots of this world, including Bieber, and mean it from the heart. I won't care whose listening because first I'd know I was morally right and secondly the general direction of travel in the good, decent, honest parts of society is towards less racism, homophobia etc (and please don't bring Trump up, he will be gone in 4/5 years of he wins re-election and the west will continue on its generally progressive trajectory).
But will you and other guys who aren't afflicted by feelings of insecurity be shouting out against prejudice against small guys when an international icon uses her global standing to directly reference small dicks in the same sentence as 'size matters'?
Sadly, I think the contents of this thread answer my question loudly and clearly.
It does answer your question loudly and clearly. Just not in the way you think.
How many times have you read comments from me so far saying making fun of men who are small or smaller is wrong? How many?
Now how many times have you seen me say that racism is wrong?
Now how many times has the topic of race come up on this site and while you had no idea it was happening i was defending against it?
There was literally someone implying that black people commit 50% of the crime in america not less than 15 minutes in another thread. And while i was saying that was a myth, i was also in this thread pointing to how penis size shaming was also wrong. And yet you were no where in sight on that thread that got to 50% of crime in america was black people.
Again, all up and down your thread i've said penis size shaming is and was wrong. Meanwhile you've continued to say and imply that NO ONE else was against it. That liberals aren't against it.
Again again. If i said that no human being has two eyes. All that would need to be presented to prove me wrong is...one human being with two eyes.
I prove you wrong. When you say no one. I prove that it isn't no one.
Now. You could then say the majority of people this or that. Which would be much more logical but saying or implying that no one will never be logical in any way shape or form logical. Period.
(This isn't about those other isms.)
No. It is about those other isms. And that's because black people aren't exactly going to be up for defending men with small or smaller when they're still being killed by cops. Women won't feel up to defending men with small or smaller when they're still get rape and death threats just for talking about sexism in video games. The lgbtq community won't feel up to defending men with small or smaller when they are still being murdered in certain parts of the world.
This isn't a comparison of suffering.
It's a reason why not as many people give a fuck about it. Because they're too busy with self preservation. Men with small or smaller will not be killed on sight for having small or smaller. People of color, women and members of the lgbtq community will be murdered on sight for being a person of color, a woman walking down the street alone and just because they are members of the lgbtq.
Which supersedes the importance of them defending men with small or smaller because we're talking self preservation. That isn't to say people shouldn't. It isn't to say that they should. It isn't to say that it isn't an issue. It's giving an insanely valid reason...a reason..why people don't.
I'm sorry but if i am forced to make a decision between helping out a guy with a small or smaller penis and fucking living. I'm picking fucking living.
Sure, progress has been made. People are still dying, being murdered, being raped and so on though. And the feelings of a guy with small or smaller will never...EVER be more important than that. Never.
Now. Even when we push all that to the side. Where it isn't an issue of life and death. And go into the area of psychological damage. I'm with you. I would imagine that it pushes men with small or smaller toward suicide. And that's wrong.
At the same time though even in that area when it comes to women and body shaming not only is it the same effect but women have it leagues above worse. Since not only is weight/age immediately visible but it is over every last moment. A guy with small or smaller can exist around people without the fear that others will immediately see. Over weight people and with age the same cannot be said.
And again, even the government comes to play when it comes to fat shaming. Bmi specifically was something adopted by our government that isn't actually accurate. Which forces the label of obese. A word people generally think of only for those like four or five hundred pounds. On the average american. For the sole purpose of selling products.
Meanwhile, that same government allows fast food companies to shit all over the american public. At this point they could be selling literal cardboard in sandwiches and the first thing out of most people's mouths is....lazy fat bastard this sjws that and general fat shaming even when a person is up against a situation that's tantamount to a reformed addict being faced with crack stores on every corner.
No.
While penis size shaming is bad. And i will say so until i'm blue in face. It is not a priority. And should not be. Why? Because other groups of people get made fun of way way way way way way way more and way way way way way more often. Not only that but most of them are actively put in situations where many of the only options is to get made fun of. Not only that they're born that way. But that they were made that way because of how society created systems purposefully to fuck people over.
How much does going to the gym cost? How much does eating healthy cost? When it comes to specific foods for specific body types whose there to give that very specific information? Are there support groups for people who are currently over weight?
Now. How common are fat jokes? Racist jokes. Sexist jokes? Homophobic and transphobic jokes? That's the point. Other groups are being attacked much more on a regular basis and you literally expect them to help you out? How?
