Resources For Down Low Men

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Does anyone know of any websites or resources with helpful information for downlow men?

I’m married and on the dl. I am very happy with my choices and not looking to change but would also like to keep from being caught. I’m sure there are many men in the same boat and would like to discuss certain things with them. For instance, do you have Grindr or other apps and if so how do you keep those from being discovered under the Apple family sharing plan? This is just one example of something that came up for me recently but there are many other issues.
Please no judgments or negativity.
 

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I have a separate phone strictly for these type of apps - we use Apple as well, so I have an android phone so I do not have to use Apple ID. I just outright purchased a phone without any activation and use it on wi-fi, or use my iPhone for a hotspot to connect. It has worked well. For DL text messaging and calling you can use the TextNow app. This would also work on one of those pre-paid phones.
 

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I have not. Isn’t it an app or is it a website? The problem with apps is when I download one, everyone in the family group can see it. I hate Apple.

If your lifestyle is hidden/private, you should look at getting an android phone with a new phone number. (ie 2nd phone)

It keeps everything simple, convenient and compartmentalized.

When I see a missed call/message notification on my second phone it almost always means my partner wants to tap and hit my arse and now just seeing my phone flash/ring is a massive turn on for me now lol.
 

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I have really mixed feelings about a4a. Back in the day (15+ years ago) it was an awesome site and very productive. I admit, I'm a free member, but anymore it's nothing but a sea of ads. I still go there to hook up , but literally every time I log in I say to myself "why do I deal with this bullshit?"