Respect for others

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  1. Imported

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    sudas: This section doesn't seem much different from the "Sex with a large penis" section.

    Anyway, I've looked in a number of posts over the past few days and wanted to call attention to a few repeat comments I saw which bother me.

    One is "I can't believe you're that big!"  Depending on context this means either "Wow!" or "You're a liar!"  The latter needs to stop.

    I read a story about a guy and his buddy watching a porno.  The buddy said the actor's penis must be a fake.  The guy said his was bigger, but his buddy wouldn't believe him.  He wasn't going to whip it out, until the buddy bet him a blowjob.  The guy won, and his buddy ended up kneeling and bobbing on a giant dick.  :D  Maybe the unbelievers may wind up in a similar predicament!  Let's just say I'm not going to doubt someone's word on their member.  Especially not on a website devoted to large penis problems!  

    There's also a number of comments like, "that's gross/ disgusting/ perverted."  In this case, withholding your comment is the best response.  If you must reply, say "I'm not into that," or "that part doesn't interest me."  There are plenty of things that don't turn me on (like defecation).  However, I'm not going to go to a forum or thread to criticize other people for their desires.  If I say anything, it would be about preventing disease, injury, or lack of consent.

    I hope you take my above comment in the manner in which it was intended, respectful of others.
     
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    wvalady1968: Well said. One of the best things about this place is that people are pretty much treated with respect. It's appreciated.
     
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    lgmember9: I agree completely. Why would anyone want to lie about the size of their penis on this forum. It's not a competition for the biggest cock, or is it a place to ridicule those with average or small penises!

    It seems to me that most people on this sight either (1) have a bigger than average penis, (2) have an average penis, but are interested in the comments, or (3) are women who are either interested in large cocks or they have a significant other with a large cock.

    Sure there is the occassional comment about someone's size, but I think in gerneral that's an infrequent event.

    I also think it's nice that both straight guys (like me) and gay guys can discuss the subject of large penises without feeling that it's strange to discuss the subject with each other.
     
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    H8Monga: *plays Aretha Franklin's version of "Respect"*

    Sing it Aretha!

    lgmember9, you'd be surprised.  To some people here, this is a fantasy world and they come here to live it out or to get material for their other fantasies. Plus, you're online, you'll never know. It's good to give people the benefit of the doubt, but sometimes that just doesn't work. Can't go along believing everything you see, hear, or read. You be the judge.  Never follow blindly.


    Then about what turns people on and likes/dislikes and stuff, people know I have a hard time swallowing promiscuity or advice that encourages it. I hate seeing people who can avoid a situation walk right into it... I've learned from the mistakes of others and I've heeded warnings yet some people would like to go through the ordeal for some reason. I'll never understand.
     
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    [quote author=Hapi Papi link=board=meetgreet;num=1061070721;start=0#3 date=08/18/03 at 22:00:10]I have a hard time swallowing promiscuity [/quote]

    Ummm ... nah; too easy! :D
     
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    H8Monga: :D :-X

    *note to self: watch word choice here*
     
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