I agree with cassahnovah, but there is another side to it.
There are female size queens as well as male ones; some women will go for what is between your legs and that alone, and that has to be the female equivalent of what Allie is talking about ... women to avoid in my limited experience of them.
BUT, funnily enough -- although it feels great to a man to be admired for his sense of humour, confidence, success, kindness, etc -- we are just like women in that if we have an outstanding physical asset, it also feels great to have it admired (whatever it may be

).
Just try telling a woman you admire her just for her mind and her affectionate nature ... in the end the same goes for a man as well.