Responsible Exhibitionism

[Tight_N_Juicy]

In the appropriate place and time I enjoy letting people look at my body. My gallery here is an example. I don't want any rando to enjoy me, but cool peeps who I've come to know and appreciate over the years? They can peek a lil, or a lot

In publici avoid showing off at all because I can't be sure the people seeing are consenting to see what I may be showing, and I also don't want perverts who don't understand that exhibitionism isn't an instant invite to physical contact thinking I'm trying to tell them they can touch me because "well she was showing it off, she obviously wanted it".

It's a complicated kink, and can be a dangerous one so I keep it minimal, but I felt like sharing: I like showing off my boobs and butt cheeks from time to time

How 'bout you?

Irresponsible examples of exhibitionist activities are not welcum consent is key

 

[deleted11525851]

I am a nudist Greeter. At peak we have 90+ guests. Mostly couples. Mostly older. We have solo fems too. The Swinger parties I hostess I am nude for them when the guests arrive. It's mostly couples with their guest. I have been mostly nude for the past 20 years. It's really always in the appropriate place or situations. My suggestion is try a nudist beach... if you are in the states look at aanr.org. Plenty of ways to be seen by others where it is normal

 

[Serpentlike]

I love being nude, but only with consenting adults present. I don't want to shock anyone or make them uncomfortable. I feel that the human body is beautiful and when outside nude, I feel more connected with nature. It is something I need occasionally.

 

[Fredneck1951]

I find that anytime is a good time to encounter a naked woman.

Well, maybe not at a crime scene, but otherwise, OK!

 

[StuJr]

I do somewhat enjoy exhibitionism, but being self conscious does put a damper on that. I recall one time when I was traveling with a couple of friends in France and I was going to take a shower, but one friend needed to use the toilet. I told him to go ahead because the toilet was behind a separate door and he’d seen me shower at the gym anyway. Well he comes out and I’m taking a shower, but this particular bathroom didn’t have a shower curtain, so I’m basically wet and nude and my friend is standing next to me washing his hands. He starts to talk to me and I’m realizing this is kind of a hot situation. I mean, we both knew I’d be naked and he’d see me, but I didn’t think it through. I’m also a fan of the clothed man/naked man scenario, so I found it quite a turn on. I can’t say he “consented” to being part of my kink, but I know he wasn’t offended by it.

Another time I was with a buddy and he lent me a dress to wear for a particular event. It was meant more as a gag outfit, so there were a few styles he let me try on. One was very snug and really hugged my body. It was so snug that I couldn’t really take it off without possibly tearing it. So I call my buddy into the room and ask him to help me take it off. He pulls on the top and slowly pulls it up over my head, leaving me standing there in just my tighty whities. I wasn’t naked, but I also have an underwear fetish, so it was pretty hot for me to be standing there in just briefs. It was quite enjoyable being seen by my buddy though. Once again, he didn’t care at all, but helped me out in a situation where I was somewhat exposed.

In college, I had a roommate who was either an exhibitionist or simply felt we were just guys and it didn’t matter if we saw each other naked. There were 3 of us sharing one bathroom and I learned right away that we had an open door policy regarding using the restroom. This was a first for me. I found this out when he asked me to bring him the phone when his girlfriend called and he was sitting on the toilet. If one of us was in the shower, taking a leak, or sitting on the toilet, and another roommate needed to use one of the other fixtures, it was basically, “go for it”. Now I actually liked this sort of set up because it fed into my exhibitionist kink. I didn’t mind when one of them would come in while I’m taking a shower or a leak, or even sitting on the toilet. It also allowed me to be a bit of a voyeur because it was just what we did naturally in our apartment. I do wonder if he would have been so “free” with his nudity if he knew I was enjoying it. Interestingly, I recently found a pic of us in the bathroom, me in a towel, talking to my roommate who is sitting on the can. Our other roommate must have taken it. It’s a fun remembrance.

 

[Stu311]

I get you. I also get a bit of a thrill from letting others see me, but only if it is consensual (i.e. they are cool with me being in the nude). I don’t like being seen by strangers in less appropriate situations (i.e anything public outside of functional nudity, like in the changing/locker room, public showers or at a quiet nudist beach with just my girlfriend, where I’m cool being in the buff, but it doesn’t satisfy any kinks as that’s normal for those situations). Outside of those situations, I don’t want to be seen as a pervert or annoy anyone - I guess the situation is a bit flipped compared to yours when you are a man, but the idea is the same: don’t want to send the wrong message.

 

[Stu311]

In the appropriate place and time I enjoy letting people look at my body. My gallery here is an example. I don't want any rando to enjoy me, but cool peeps who I've come to know and appreciate over the years? They can peek a lil, or a lot

In publici avoid showing off at all because I can't be sure the people seeing are consenting to see what I may be showing, and I also don't want perverts who don't understand that exhibitionism isn't an instant invite to physical contact thinking I'm trying to tell them they can touch me because "well she was showing it off, she obviously wanted it".

It's a complicated kink, and can be a dangerous one so I keep it minimal, but I felt like sharing: I like showing off my boobs and butt cheeks from time to time

How 'bout you?

Irresponsible examples of exhibitionist activities are not welcum consent is key

I hope I am not asking something too personal, but what are some appropriate places and times to explore your kink?

I have tried strip poker and some drinking games that involved undressing, but beyond that it is not an easy kink to satisfy, unless I’d go to some sex party or something. However that implies more than just nudity and defeats the purpose, as I am not into combining exhibitionism with touch/sex right away.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I hope I am not asking something too personal, but what are some appropriate places and times to explore your kink?

I have tried strip poker and some drinking games that involved undressing, but beyond that it is not an easy kink to satisfy, unless I’d go to some sex party or something. However that implies more than just nudity and defeats the purpose, as I am not into combining exhibitionism with touch/sex right away.

At this point in my life my gallery here is my only outlet to show off in that way. It's enough for me

 

[Stu311]

At this point in my life my gallery here is my only outlet to show off in that way. It's enough for me

Got you, thanks! I guess that counts too then, though I do have the privilege of not having to reveal my identity here, which makes me feel a bit less naked than I otherwise would in real life .

 

[Stu311]

At this point in my life my gallery here is my only outlet to show off in that way. It's enough for me

Follow up question, if you are cool with it: do you care about what your audience thinks/how they react to your nudity, or is it mostly the idea of knowing you have exposed part of yourself to a group of consenting individuals that drives your kink?

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Follow up question, if you are cool with it: do you care about what your audience thinks/how they react to your nudity, or is it mostly the idea of knowing you have exposed part of yourself to a group of consenting individuals that drives your kink?

I don't really think much about it, so I suppose it's the latter that drives it more for me.

I mean, knowing that the viewer is particularly enthused by what they see isn't unpleasant or anything I just don't ever really find myself thinking "I wonder how much these people are 'enjoying' what they see".

Another part of it is definitely the idea that my guy likes showing me off a bit too. In public he makes jokes about what other people may or may not be able to see, but he's responsible safe and respectful enough of me and of strangers to not try and force it on anyone. Like how I mentioned in the camel toe thread that if he notices that my shirt has ridden up and my pants may have ridden *in* a bit he'll let me know quietly so I can adjust myself. He doesn't just let it happen and hope someone stares. But in the right time and place, he thoroughly enjoys knowing that I turn people on. And I gotta say, I feel the same way about him. I catch other women checking him out and I get a little thrill. I won't deny it

 

[Stu311]

I don't really think much about it, so I suppose it's the latter that drives it more for me.

I mean, knowing that the viewer is particularly enthused by what they see isn't unpleasant or anything I just don't ever really find myself thinking "I wonder how much these people are 'enjoying' what they see".

Another part of it is definitely the idea that my guy likes showing me off a bit too. I'm public he makes jokes about what other people may or may not be able to see, but he's responsible safe and respectful enough of me and of strangers to not try and force it on anyone. Like how I mentioned in the camel toe thread that if he notices that my shirt has ridden up and my pants may have ridden *in* a bit he'll let me know quietly so I can adjust myself. He doesn't just let it happen and hope someone stares. But in the right time and place, he thoroughly enjoys knowing that I turn people on. And I gotta say, I feel the same way about him. I catch other women checking him out and I get a little thrill. I won't deny it

Ha, totally get the latter part. I get similar vibes with my gf as well when in public, even though technically speaking the people who might check her out are not necessarily consenting to it, but I guess as long as it’s not super indecent, anything goes.

For example, I might suggest she wear that nice summer dress sans bra, or go for the tiny lace thong on a windy day when we know there is a chance of an unintended flash that may or may not make someone’s day hehe. She also gets a bit turned on by idea that she has to be on her toes to keep her dress/skirt down and that tiny VS thong focuses the mind better than a pair of granny pants.

As for her exposing me, she is all for form fitting swimwear (boxer brief-type, not speedos) and feels turned on by knowing that I might get checked out more wearing those than swim trunks.

We do try to keep it between us and play it safe. I am conscious there are some fine lines we should not cross lest we get into trouble with perverts and other weirdos.

 

[EllieP]

I have come to be very comfortable with my body, and I do enjoy being nude. But I am very selective about who gets to enjoy that with me.

I'd prefer not to post anything online because I'll lose control of it then. That happened to my husband, and it's a horrible experience.

The only time I ever wear a swimsuit in my pool is when company comes over. Same for housework when I'm alone.

What made our one and only nude beach experience horrible was the reaction from people we called friends. We decided the next time, and there will be a next time, we're going alone.

 

[deleted1547822]

I think my mental shift was from 3 tours in Germany (about 10 years, total). The sauna at the pool has mixed gender nudity, and no one thinks anything about it other than not to put your but or feet directly on a bench! (use the towel...). I'm shy personally, but indifferent in a sauna kind of situation.

Dancing around, stoned and naked at Burning Man sounds like a lot of fun. Liberating. But I suspect it wouldn't live up to the idea.

arrrgh, there's fucking dust and sand where it shouldn't be!!! lol

 

[deleted6604521]

I absolutely get a rush from showing off my body, and I've definitely done it very irresponsibly in the past. I think it came from in general a lack of confidence when I was younger and being in some abusive relationships. The high from being sexually desired by strangers on the internet was intoxicating whether it was coming from women, men, or whomever. I've kind of pivoted to more exclusive sharing, and I feel like it's more out of mutual appreciation of the naked human form, and this site seems like a decent place for it.

 

[SamMann75]

My wife has these semi sheer tops. Mostly they are appropriate, but in dimmer lights (romantic restaurant, clubs, indoor concerts, later at night) and the right angle you can see what's underneath them. She always pairs them with incredibly short skirts and no panties.

 

[deleted4911161]

I totally feel the same way as you @Tight_N_Juicy . When I was younger, I use to shower at the gym and that was my outlet for my "exhibitionism". Now, this is my outlet.

Consent is important. I would never force someone to see me naked or try to trick someone or anything like that.

On the other hand, I probably enjoy the most when ppl comment on my looks rather than my penis. It is much more of a turn on to know they have seen me completely naked from head to toe. Disembodied penises dont do much for me and I would think the same applies to other guys. If ppl wank looking at my pics or vids, it doesn't disgust me but it doesn't turn me on. What turns me on is knowing someone has looker at me naked lol and especially if its a one sided thing and I havent seen them naked.

Interesting topic btw. Thanks for bringing it up!

 

[WilliamG]

In the appropriate place and time I enjoy letting people look at my body. My gallery here is an example. I don't want any rando to enjoy me, but cool peeps who I've come to know and appreciate over the years? They can peek a lil, or a lot

In publici avoid showing off at all because I can't be sure the people seeing are consenting to see what I may be showing, and I also don't want perverts who don't understand that exhibitionism isn't an instant invite to physical contact thinking I'm trying to tell them they can touch me because "well she was showing it off, she obviously wanted it".

It's a complicated kink, and can be a dangerous one so I keep it minimal, but I felt like sharing: I like showing off my boobs and butt cheeks from time to time

How 'bout you?

Irresponsible examples of exhibitionist activities are not welcum consent is key

Much like you while I expose here... I do honestly sexualize a pic if it strikes chord with me. But it's my thing. Many of us can lust over a body AND have a fun conversation. In our "real" lives, we are mostly modest and polite folks. Hopefully we comment based on our prior interactions.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I’m here with a feeling of YKINMKATOK.
I definitely do not foist my kinks on others.

I do feel that “nudism” gets way over sexualized. Read the nude beach threads!

There is a definite difference between seeing someone nude and sexualizing that nudity.
I’ve peeped a couple galleries. TNJ for ink, for example.
Mine has “things I want to post in threads on mobile” and a couple things to share with friends only.
It’s booooring.

Before I wised up to such, I would get horrible comments. Crass beyond crass.


After a reread, maybe I need a scandalous clavicle photo?

 

[WilliamG]

I’m here with a feeling of YKINMKATOK.
I definitely do not foist my kinks on others.

I do feel that “nudism” gets way over sexualized. Read the nude beach threads!

There is a definite difference between seeing someone nude and sexualizing that nudity.
I’ve peeped a couple galleries. TNJ for ink, for example.
Mine has “things I want to post in threads on mobile” and a couple things to share with friends only.
It’s booooring.

Before I wised up to such, I would get horrible comments. Crass beyond crass.
After a reread, maybe I need a scandalous clavicle photo?

To me the "nudist" I see posting tend to not be real nudists. I'm not a nudist. I wished others that like the exhibitionism and sexuality of it to be honest about it. Years back on SexualForum there several that posted about the "wholesome nurturing family environment" at the nudist camps they went to... Then boast about the crazy bisexual hookup they made there.

Also, is it so hard to look at someone profile FIRST and even follow their posts a bit before posting comments? When the profile says "Tell me your dirty thoughts..." That's open season. But if it's a more modest pic... Perhaps a nice compliment?