Restroom Cruising

Discussion in 'Show Off' started by latenyteman, Oct 1, 2007.

  1. B_Italian1

    B_Italian1 New Member

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    I would. There's a time and place for everything, and when I go into a restroom I expect it to be a restroom, not a sex room.
     
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    I was 13 years old and my dad took me to E. J. Korvettes. I went into the bathroom stall planning to beat off.
    Saw a glory hole with a guy on the other side. He stucck his finger in and rubbed the bottom opf the hole. I stepped up and let him blow me. I didnt want to cum yet so I pulled back. I started zipping up and a $20 bill came through the hold. I froze and acted like I was trying to decide and the $20 turned inbto $40 so I grabbed the $ and went back and gave him my load. After wards I was at the sink cleaning up trying to get the red out of my ears to go meet up with pop. He saw how young I was and gave me another $40.
    Was the start of a wild teen-hood
     
  3. B_Italian1

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    These stories are really sad, but you guys see nothing wrong with it. Like it's okay to be abused as a child. You let these perverts get away with this. And it's so stereotypically gay with the whole restroom, glory hole, and cruising scenes, yet we are told there is no such thing as a gay lifestyle. This is why people feel that our early sexual experiences shape our sexual identity.
     
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    You do realize that you likely have hundreds of generations of ancestors who were married as soon as they started puberty? The modern myth of angelic sexless children with raging hormones but no desires is the result of prudery run amok in the United States.

    Back in your eponymous old country the age of consent is 14.

     
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    Typical small-minded authoritarian Italian-American asshole---think Antonin Scalia---who can't imagine why their rules shouldn't be for everyone else (and in case you're wondering, I had a grandfather who was Italian-American)
     
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    You do realize that you likely have hundreds of generations of ancestors who were married as soon as they started puberty? The modern myth of angelic sexless children with raging hormones but no desires is the result of prudery run amok in the United States. Jason els

    That is poetry at it's best Jason.
    Kill my cattle!!! Burn my barn!!! I wanta party with you Cowboy!!!
    Load your little U-haul up and come live with me dude!!!!
     
  7. davidjh7

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    I'm going to try and remain unemotional on this subject, because I have mixed feelings. First, it IS illegal, whatever your moral stance. Second, "tearoom", "cottaging", whatever has decreased to close to zero since AIDS has become so prevalent. Anonymous sex is going to always be more of a hazard, in more ways than one, than sex with someone you know to at least some extent. One thing that I want to point out to the straight folk who are getting on amoral high horse, however, is that the times WERE different. If gay men had been able to have the same venues for meeting other gay men, for whatever reason, without hate, harassment, and arrest, then likely tearoom sex never would have become that popular. As others have pointed out, while the underage sex was illegal, and likely affected some young men negatively, it had a positive, freeing, liberating affect on others, because they finally KNEW they weren;t totally alone, and destined to be alone and despised forever. I personally feel a young mans first sexual experiences should be with someone their own age, simply because there is less of a chance of a major control factor being involved, and thus more equal and balanced. But different people have different attractions, and opportunities. Yours are no more or less moral than others, and unless you have never done anything against anyone or anything before in your life, it is not your right or place to pass judgement. You are free to not agree with something, you are free to express your opinion, you are even free to work with others to pass laws that you feel are just. Butyou don;t havethe right to pass moral judgment. Unless you have lived exactly the same experience, then you can;t have a real understanding of the situation. End of rant.
     
  8. Timbo5678

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    The idea of turning a person who has just willingly allowed you expand your horizons and live out your sexual fantasies to legal authorities as a sexual abuser is cruel and sadistic and absurd.

    There is nothing sicker than an adult using his adult powers to force a child or young person to have sex with him. I firmly believe these predators have every reason to have their constitutional rights limited.

    However as a sexually curious ex-child, I know there is nothing more beautiful and thrilling than finding an adult who will physically answer your questions and assure you your curiousity as well as your new hormonal drives are wonderous things, not to be feared, but to be enjoyed.

    The puritanical attitudes that rule this country (many under the guise of being politically correct) are sad and frightening. Since the beginning of time cultures have introduced its members to sex at the very age these lpsg posters were. In many countries the ages the posters were when the became sexually active are the ages of legal consent.

    I believe our fonding fathers, Benjamin Franklin in particular would shed bitter tears and hang his head in shame over the sexually puritanical attitudes many of our population (and politicans) proudly consider to be
    correct and American.
     
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    I don't think you would.
     
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    I'd kiss you if you were near me, Timbo! :wink:

    I think what we might have here is one of these guys who secretly cruises the Restrooms and hates himself by publicly hating everyone else who does it. Tsk, tsk...sad.
     
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    Dude, that is totally hot! Too bad it's not there anymore.
     
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    Of course there are children with raging hormones, but that doesn't mean that adults have a right to have sex with them.

    I agree and it's legal.

    So it's okay for a man, say 30 or 40, to have sex with a 10 year old? I have every right to judge a person who does that harshly. He is committing a crime.

    I agree!

    That sounds like a card carrying member of NAMBLA. Ugh! You're not making gays look good.

    Do most gays support NAMBLA? I'm not hearing any negativity regarding man/boy love.
     
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    well... I was 17 when i started college and was in the library restroom cruising for cock as much as possible. no wonder it took 5 years to graduate! ha!
     
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    lol What was the name of that porn movie? Where do you find this stuff to make up? They couldn't jerk off at home before work? No, they got up, showered, got dressed, headed off to the WTC bathroom and jerked off with other guys then headed off to work.
     
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    Italian - wow... you are so curmudgeonly...why don't you let me suck your cock...? that might put a smile on your face. :)
     
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    You're 70% straight. :biggrin1:
     
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    Obviously someone with a very limited world view and knowlege of what guys can get up to

     
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    When I was 10, what I wouldn't have given for an 18 or 19 year old, or maybe even a 25 year old to hold me and let me sexually explore them...

    In times past, young men and women were married by age 12, 13, 14. Remember "Little House On The Prairie"? The youngest was married before she even began to develop breasts!

    Today, so many young people can only learn about sex, and about themselves, from dirty on-line sites, sneaking around, and from other young people who don't know any more than they do. I have a young friend who spent last winter pumping me for information about being gay, and I had to repeatedly tell him we couldn't talk about any of those subjects until his birthday, as he wasn't the age of consent and I wasn't going to jail for his curiosity. After his birthday he was legal, so I couldn't be accused of some of the things that have been discussed and alluded to in other replies to the OP. In Europe, the age of consent laws are much lower, have stages that prohibit excessive differences in age, and yet they have much lower rates of child abuse. Go figure!

    By the way, child abuse, like the 40 year old with the 10 year old, is more about power than sex. That's why most molesters are heterosexual even though their prey is often male.
     
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    Damn refresh button when the page didn't come up.

    Duplicate post deleted.
     
  20. guynextdoor

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    I think there is an inherent danger that attracts people to public sex. I have never engaged in bathroom cursing but my ex wife and I did have sex on a balcony in Hawaii. It was at night, and although it was dark, there were lights in the room and people could probably see us. We were on the 21st floor. I have to admit to the thrill of it. But beyond the possible thrill of the public nature of it, I think some guys must engage in bathroom cruising because they are closeted and have no other way for meeting men. If we didn't make people feel that being gay is some how wrong, and they felt open to meet people in other ways, it would be a benefit to all. Sadly, our society isn't quite there.
     
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