For many years now I have SUFFERED with what is called "Retarded Orgasm" (Google it if you don't know what it is). But in a nutshell (pardon the pun), retarded orgasm is the inability to orgasm. I have literally gone a full weekend (Fri-Sun late evening) with not only a raging hardon but also not once having an orgasm while receiving direct and almost constant stimulation. I have seen countless Dr's regarding this issue as well as having an erection for almost 36 hours. As we know, or should know, an erection of a few hours can cause priapism (will not go down) and phlebitis (inflammation of blood vessels). Thankfully, I do not have to worry about these issues because my erections are natural vs. chemical or mechanical. However this condition has pretty much caused me relationships! My ex-wife and I after several years of marriage and frustration got into swinging. Once she saw me with other women and realized it wasnt her but ME she sort of relaxed some. Now with another woman the same issues have arisen (again pardon the pun) and now shes getting frustrated and thinking its her! Am I the only one like this?!?!!?????