Well, I think, "I don't think I ever want to be touched by you or see you ever again" is pretty permanent, and my two-plus month quasi-relationship is probably over. We had a little problem a few weeks back (her fault), and I am fairly certain that I've put it behind me. However, she disagrees and even worse - that I've actually used my penis to punish her, which is the most insane thing any woman or person has ever said to me. Have you ever used or been accused of using your penis (or size) as a weapon of punishment or revenge? And before you answer that question, I'm not talking about angry or typical rough sex, or getting carried away. I'm talking about actually talking another consenting, adult, sexual partner into sleeping with you (which is hard enough to do), then using your oversized genitals to pound her/him silly for some slight or transgression against you. I'm talking about a deliberately sadistic and malicious act with your penis in a totally consensual hookup. And I'm certainly not talking about rape, which is heinous and unforgivable in my eyes. I'm not talking about forcing anything on anybody. Have you ever been accused of getting rough with a woman or male partner, because you supposedly secretly resent her and want to punish her for being beautiful and out of your league [and excuse me, but isn't that the most egotistical, self-important, delusional thing you've ever heard]? Have you ever been mistakenly accused of using your penis against your girlfriend (or boyfr.) to get payback for some transgression against you? Keep in mind, this is a consenting adult, who never said 'no' or 'stop' or protested any other way, during the whole thing or even immediately after; yet has somehow decided that your overzealousness in bed is directed against her - to hurt her. Keep in mind also that this is a woman, who knows you're big-dicked already, has already been with you three or four times and knows totally what she's getting. Are there women or gay men here, who really think they have experienced punishment by a penis?