giozam76: Hey guys. My first thread on this site was called "Office Attire vs. Play Attire". I asked for some advice on what to wear to the office that would not be so revealing, having gotten more than a few stares and comments about my obvious bulge in dress slacks. I also posted on another thread about how I couldn't wear boxers because the weight of my equipment just made it uncomfortable, plus I just showed way too much in slacks. Well, I'm here to admit that I have done some experimenting, and I am now a changed man. I decided to try freeballing on a whim about 1 month ago, just to see what it would be like, and to see if my "I need support" argument still "held weight" (heehee). Well, to my surprise, i was actually comfortable at work, and even though I really bounced around a lot in my slacks while at work, it felt really freeing to just let go and do it, without caring about the stares or possible comments. I actually got no comments, a few stares, but nothing to get worked up about. I have been freevalling for a month now, and it feels great! The soreness of not beeing held up soon faded, and now its just great. I do however have to lift up my boys when I sit now. I learned this lesson the hard way, in my boss' office of all places! I sat down for a meeting, and sat richt down on them. I leeped up grabbing my nuts and exclaimed "Excuse me..I just need to catch my breath for a second." He freaked out - he didn't realize what happened to me until I said "I just sat on my nuts!" After about 10 minutes, the sick feeling in my gut finally subsided, and I went back to my boss' office. This time, and ever since, I lifted my nuts up and then sat down. My boss added "I wish I had that problem." So - YES - I am a changed man. I now enjoy wearing boxer shorts again, and even freeeballing. I still wear briefs or a jock when I work out, but I am hereby changing my attitude. Fuck what other people think about your bulge - it's what you have! Don't be ashamed of it. ...and for fuck's sake - let it all hang free!