And this is why I value the opinions of members like DMW and Freddie and some others here who believe that their religion is their personal choice and need not be the choice of others in order to be decent human beings.
The problem has been with presentation. I believe I have been able to read the passages of the Bible, particularly the NT and gain some credible insight into the life of Jesus and what his teachings meant at the time, and what I can apply to my life as a person living in my time. I realise that much was written in parable, as he even states it himself, so I see no lucid reason to take literally a story that was not written to be read as such. I also feel free to read with great discernment anything written by authors who are speaking on their own behalf and stating their opinions about what Christ wanted, they were human men and subject to flaw the same as you and I. Only the four gospels recount the actual life of Christ, and even those are not in complete harmonious agreement, which is normal for four men telling the story from their own point of view. I believe that far more of that is true of the OT, but not being as well versed in it, I have largely brushed it off as less relevant and more useful as historical backdrop. One has to be able to read the passages and then back up drastically to try to gain the message contained therein. For me, whether or not I believe that Mary was a virgin as we speak the word today (fwiw, I don't) does not detract from my admiration for the man known as Jesus who spent what would be the last few years of his life trying to bring understanding and peace to the world.
However, having been to many Pentecostal and fundamentalist churches, I can assure you that this is NOT the attitude taken by all! There are quite a few Christian churches in operation today who are in fact literalists, and it is with them and only them that I have a huge problem.
What a sad commentary on us as a race (human) that anytime a person of great character and decency tries to spread the word of peace, he most often comes to a tragic and violent end. To add insult to injury, we go on to warp the message they died for to fit our bloodthirsty and hateful desires. Sometimes I just feel filthy being a human being. Sometimes it seems there is just enough religion in the world to make men hate each other but not enough to make them love.