Rimming: Do you like receiving or giving?

[chadstallion]

both; although i'd rather receive. only give if they are very very clean and never insert tongue in hole. i do it to a married guy that i've been blowing for a couple years. now he cant wait for me to rim him; and then finger his ass with a dildo.

 

[demedja]

I've never done it to anyone but years ago I used to regularly hook up with a guy who was seriously into tossing salad. He used to love doing it to me. I probably would have tried it with him but I just never got around to it. I should have tried it then because I was totally into that guy. Not so sure I'd do it with anyone now. That dude was the only one I ever met who I lost all my inhibitions with. Also the only one I ever met who could totally wear me out in the sack. [Ahh, good times ]. That guy was hot as fuck! He was so clean and always smelled so good. He had it all...the niceness, the handsome face, the muscle body, the big dick, the masculinity, the stamina, the smarts... He had the perfect round ass to do this with, but I've always been more into kissing and fucking I guess.

You know how sometimes you look back at your life and wonder about the decisions you made? I still wonder about that dude. He was an awesome buddy to talk to, go to ball games with, and hang out. We used to fuck for hours, he was very passionate that way---and, unfortunately, he also very married and with young kids. But, oh, well...

It was good---until it got weird. He started saying shit that made me realize that he was thinking about leaving his family and wanting to move in with me. I didn't want the homewrecker thing on my conscience so I ended the fuck buddy relationship. I realized then that he is really gay and I knew that I was not, so there was really nowhere for it to go anyway. I did not want to commit to giving up women to be in a relationship with a man. Some people say that this is just an excuse to continue whoring around, but that's because they don't really understand what its like to be bi. After that I made up a rule about not fooling around with married men anymore---not unless its just a stress relieving fuck and then we're done. I find that straight men are generally better for me to play with, but most that I've hooked up with are so freaked out about being labeled queer that they are afraid to enjoy what they are feeling or to convey any emotion at all. I don't hook up with just anyone, and if I'm fucking some dude I want to know and feel that he's enjoying it, too. If he's going to just lay there like a log then I might as well stay home and jerk to some good porn. I don't really hook up with a lot of men anymore. Too much bullshit and drama nowadays. Women can be a lot of drama too but they are still easier. There are still some nice guys out there, but its not as easy to meet and hang out with them as it used to be.

But, I digress... I might toss salad if I'm with somebody (guy or girl) who's really clean and super hot. I'd more be inclined to do it
with a chick than with a dude though.

 

[AlwaysSunnyinDFW]

I wouldn't miss it tbh. Only experienced it with guys so far, no girls (yet). honestly, despite being a top, I could be rimmed for hours. it feels amazing! esp when they reach around and trombone you... ughh, pure bliss! I also love givin rjs, I spend plenty of time pleasing, teasing, and prepping that ass for my mushroom head

 

[bijockfl]

Love tonguing a smooth pink hole just out of the shower and pulling the cock back and going at it,

 

[fullspeedo11]

I am not big into ass play but I do like recieving a good rim job, it feels great.

 

[sry59simon]

both, prefer giving

 

[Long Island John]

I've been rimmed a few times and I thought that it felt great. Just the thought of me spreading my ass cheeks wide open and a guy looking at my hole and licking it up gets me really going. I also make sure that I'm very very clean down there and I am also clean shaved.
I've only rimmed someone once who was also clean shaved and enjoyed that too. Especially hearing him groan as I tried to stick my tongue in his hole. Can't wait to do it again but he has to be clean shaved. Not a big fan of hairy asses.

 

[find83]

Nope not into getting rimmed. Doesn't feel bad but doesn't do anything for me

 

[Gazinburnley]

i love giving

 

[thongboy]

both for me. When I get a good rimming I never want it to end. And before I fuck a guy I always give him a rim job to die for before I slide my lubed cock into him

 

[Cumquistador]

love doing it, especially to a clean and hairy manhole!

 

[Cumquistador]

Both, but prefer to rim. I love hairy hole.

 

[drv4all]

I love both

 

[Lakeshore]

I enjoy both with women. Never been there, done that with a guy.

 

[mdbi_guy]

Never done it to anyone, but loved getting it from the one guy that tried it with me.

 

[hckyfan03]

I remember the first time I was rimmed. This 19 year old girl licked my hole like it had candy inside it and then fingered me. Great blow job too, It was great and I fucked her long and hard after that.

 

[269616]

I absolutely love rimming, both giving and receiving! It is so primal and hot, and feels so amazing, and licking and tongue probing that tight, tender hole, feeling it clutching and spasming in pleasure gets me off

 

[1000608]

I like both , it feels amazing

 

[Ginger9x]

Both!

 

[Heat]

Well D_22, it had the makings of being hot, ... until it wasn't, ... and then it hurt. :frown1:

First, I made sure I was VERY VERY clean. ...But, in hindsight, perhaps I was too clean, and it added to this person's enthusiasm of the session.

The story is that I connected with a guy who seemed to enjoy rimming me. So I let him, and it felt REALLY good ... at the start.

It began with him bending me forward over a chair, and then he kneeled down behind me to get his tongue on and around my hole. He did this for a few minutes. It felt good. Then, he had me stand up, lay back on the top of my desk, while he moved to sit in a chair, putting his face right in line with my ass. He first started to lick, and then push a little with his tongue, and then spit, etc. This all felt good. After a few minutes, I relaxed some more, and he took his hands and put them on both my cheeks, and then spread my sensitive tissue open some more (I was quite relaxed, so everything was 'relaxing'). His enthusiasm seemed to growing (evidenced in part by his moans), and his technique became more focused. He went from licking my hole and sensitive area, to nibbling with his lips, to using his go-tee to brush against the area, to pushing his chin (really, the area between his lower lip and the tip of his chin) forcefully against my hole. It went from feeling nice and relaxing at the start, to strange, and then mild discomfort, to ... hard to describe. Getting a rim job was new to me, so I was kind of 'going with it.' He continued to work my hole and spread it wide, and then push his face and chin deeper, with more rubbing of the area. In total, this lasted about ten minutes.

Well, a short while after our session ended, I began to feel some discomfort 'back there.' And by the next day or so, the pain was stronger. By the second day, I took a real close look in a mirror, and after being startled by what I saw, I headed straight to Google for answers! I self diagnosed a blood-blister type of injury right on my hole. A small blood vessel must have broken under the skin surface due to the vigorous contact. It's the same type of injury as when you hit your thumb with a hammer, and it turns purple and black. The difference here is that it's on my hole, and it has taken a L-O-N-G time for the bump to go down. The pain went away after about three days.

Sorry that the potentially-exciting story may not have a happy ending, but hopefully it will help others to avoid my experience. :smile:

Damn, hate it when they don't know when to step back from the aggression. Makes it more about them and their wants/needs/fantasies than it is about the connection and having some sexy fun. I hope you haven't excluded it from future escapades.