I have a bit of a condumdrum. I bought a large ball splitter cock ring a while back (probably because I wanted to impress the clerk and because I have 6" of girth). I put it on, and I discover that when I am flaccid it doesn't provide much compression. It's too big. When I harden the ring fits well--if well means not popping veins or red skin color. I decided I wanted a smaller (medium) one, so that I might benefit from it when I am flaccid. So I bought the medium. Sure enough, it is much snugger, but my penis turns very red and the veins are very pronounced. There is a bit of discomfort. It does the job of restricting blood flow, but I wonder if this is potentially dangerous. Should I stick with the larger one?